need suggestions

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Registered: 05-19-2004
need suggestions
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Wed, 05-19-2004 - 11:39am
My sex life with so has decreased somewhat. We used to be like little bunny rabbits. I would like to spice things up a little bit. I was wondering if you gilrs or guys have any suggestions on how to "rock his world" I want it to be so good for him that his toes curl up. I love sex any way i can get it but i just dont know how to initiate it. Lets just say I've let him do all the work before and now i want to return all the favors. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 12:48pm
Hey, you know your guy better than we do, and since he's had to do "all the work" before, just you're initiating and ravaging him will "curl his toes" I'm sure! Men love feeling desired as much as we do and your renewed interest will be welcome.

Why not plan a seduction one night when he's not too tired or preoccupied? Draw a hot bath for him, maybe with a glass of wine to help him relax? Once you've toweled him off, get out the massage oil and go to town on those tired back and leg muscles. Once he's putty in your hands, roll him over and start working on his nether regions, either orally or manually and then hop on and ride him home.

If this doesn't surprise and thrill him after a hard day's work, I don't know what will!

My DH and I have a King/Queen night once a week where we're each catered to and pampered. It keeps things from becoming routine and helps us to keep the emphasis on giving rather than just taking from one another. Enthusiasm is the key. Have fun!

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Wed, 05-19-2004 - 12:50pm
Here is one that I loved. One day, or night, when the kids are all asleep, and your H is watching the tube, working, or just laying around doing his usual, go upstairs, get fixed up, whether in lingerie, or just bare, and come down, without saying a word, and begin to orally pleasure him. Take complete control, and do not let him go until you are worked up and ready to burst. Show off for him, be a sex kitten, and just make him feel like he is the most awesome man in the universe. Take him right then and there. Another idea, is when he gets home from work, be in your bedroom, waiting for him to come through the door, and take him, right then and there. Let him catch you masterbating, and instead of acting shocked and alarmed, tell him he does it much better, and would he please take over. Tease him constantly. Slight brushes across the crotch of his trowsers, small smacks on the buttocks if he like it, if not, hands on it often. Keep him guessing, and he will reward you with plenty of great times, memories, and all the sex you could handle. Massages are a nice way to start off as well, but for guys the direct and straight forward approach is always a good one. When he is watching the ball game, strip and stand in front of the TV, showing off for him a bit, then crawl to him, and take him in his easy chair. Leave a trail of notes from the front door, to your bed and ultimately to you, telling him all sorts of things you want him to do and you want to do to him. I will come up with some more ideas if you would like. They flow from me like a river at times. LOL To bad it is so hard to get them to work out for me. LOL I get to obsessed with getting it perfect.
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Registered: 05-19-2004
Thu, 05-20-2004 - 11:48am
Thanks for all of those ideas and yeah if you have some more keep them coming i will try anything and everything
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Thu, 05-20-2004 - 2:31pm
I liked the 3rd reply, it is one I use often. Give him a surprise BJ. Men never turn down a blow job! After you've achieved your desired thickness and you can't stand it any longer... ride him to your glory!