Too Much Thinking
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Too Much Thinking
| Wed, 05-19-2004 - 2:00pm |
My boyfriend and I recently had a very candid talk about our sex lives. He was worried that I don't seem to get that excited during sex. The thing is he gets so excited it is like he becomes this other person. He is no longer attached to his rational mind and all thought of almost anything other than love and pleasure go out the window. I on the other hand and always aware of everything. I am wondering about what time it is, if he is happy, what I can be doing to make it better for me and him, the crap I have to do the next day, how many calories I ate that day, my brain just doesn't stop. Even when I orgasim it is pleasant, but I am still very present in my surroundings.
Is there a way that I can let stuff go, or do some people just not work that way?

I used to be like that, everything on my mind.
Good luck.
Scott.
Seriously, mentally prepare yourself for the moment, during the moment, close your eyes meditate, fantasize, pretend you are somewhere else. That's what works for me.