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Oral question
| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 4:15pm |
Okay, in an effort to revitalize our sex life (I posted last week regarding DH's lack of libido), I initiated oral sex the other night. I used to really enjoy doing this, and have been told I was quite good at it, but it's been awhile. I noticed I have much more of a gag reflex than I used to, I have no idea why. I thought maybe it was because I was kneeling in front of him, maybe it was a bad angle, but I just couldn't find a comfortable way to take in as much as I could. I know he would love me to go all the way down, and I used to be able to do this. Any suggestions for how to position myself as to not gag? I admit, since it's been so long for us, I was a little anxious and perhaps overzealous, maybe I just wasn't relaxed.
Any feedback would be appreciated, thank you!

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Leticia
... the woman I'm starting to really care about is much more experienced in this regard, but has an awful gag reflex (literally, she once, uhh, threw up doing it with only about 2/3 of my penis in her mouth). Maybe that's because she's physically quite petite; I dunno. The other one, who's nice, much taller but as time goes by seemingly not worthy of the same level of adoration, who had almost no experience with oral as her older former husband did not want oral sex has in a few short weeks learned to fully deepthroat me with absolutely zero gagging or anything else (except a rather incredible quantity of saliva lol). I so enjoy it but I'd much rather that the woman I like so much could acquire these same skills! Can gagging be un-learned?
Leticia
Edited 5/21/2004 4:53 pm ET ET by yarn_lover
Not in the least! It's just so incredibly cool to watch, like a magic act. I must agree, the pleasure's probably more psychological than physical. Certainly you can give killer bjs w/o being able to do it.
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