Im scared of Doggy Style! ! HELP!!!

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Im scared of Doggy Style! ! HELP!!!
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 10:37am
Ive been with my husband for 8 years now. We have done it every way but doggy style. He is larger than average and sometimes other positions hurt a little. We tried it doggy a few times and it was kinda painful. I really want to do it that way and I know he does too but im a little scared. Any suggestions?
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 11:36am
I would suggest lots of lube and take it slow for a while till you are both completly into each other.....there are people who LOVE this position and then people who HATE it...I have never heard of an in between.

GL,

Christi

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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 11:39am
Thank you for the advice. Is there a certain way of doing that could possibly make it less uncomfortable?
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:16pm
1. communicate every inch of the way. he simply can't go hog-wild thrusting all the way without concern for your pain.

2. have him stay still and you do all the moving back onto his penis so you can control the depth.

3. instead of the on your knees version, try the version where you are laying on your stomache, the penetration isn't as deep that way.

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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:28pm
Thanks for the advice I hope it helps me. I still feel a little intimidated by it but I also feel more confident in trying.
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Mon, 05-24-2004 - 6:16pm
UPDATE--Thanks for the advice. It really helped ALOT. I guess I can add this position to my LOOOOONG list of favorites. THANKS AGAIN.
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Registered: 05-17-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 12:30pm
Hi Tootsie,

Try laying down flat on your tummy instead of on all fours. Then when your H enters you, he doesn't need to go all the way in, because your thights feel great too. This is the way I find it most comfortable. Let us know how it goes. Don't be scared, if you don't like it, just tell him it's no good for you. Have fun!!

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Fri, 06-11-2004 - 4:13pm
Pretty Simple just relax yur muscles and if you need

to use KY jelly you should. Trust me in the beginning

it will hurt but after awhile you woill begin to injoy yourself

make sure your guy plays with your clit...

That will make you forget what he is doing through the back..