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Too many partners?
| Sat, 05-22-2004 - 10:41am |
Howdy. I'm so mad. Last night my bf of almost 2 mos. broke up with me. We were discussing exclusivity and he asked me how many people I had sex with. I told him 19. He said it won't work, and left. He's only been with 2 partners. How can he be jealous, that was my past.

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My personal thoughts are, I would say he was looking for an excuse to break up with you.
Is there any way to know that it won't turn into a LTR and then you have a lie to deal with.
At 19, however, it seems more like you were having sex just for the fun of it - "sleeping around" in other words. This is an entirely different matter.
If your boyfriend is the type who believes in "true love" and just hasn't found his mate yet, it is unlikely that he will want to be involved with a woman who treats sex so casually.
I agree.
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
ultimately, if he cares enough about you he'll be back.
I wouldn't let it bother me too much, but next time, tell your guy that your past made you who you are and just give him the basics, NO DETAILS, NO NUMBERS. Leave it at that.
Once you tell, they never let you forget it, believe me, even if they've had triple the amount of partners. It's a Pandora's box that can never be closed again.
Edited 5/22/2004 9:46 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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