What should my first move be?

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Registered: 11-26-2003
What should my first move be?
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 11:31am
Ok, guys I really need your help on this one. Im usually never intimidated about sex and know what to do.But this time it's different. There is this man that I have been very close friend with for the past five months, but whom I also feel incredibly attracted to. Im not sure how he is feeling about it, but we calls me everyday, we go out every other day, we go to the movies together, he makes sexual reamrks all the time and we are very comfortable talking about sex together, although we are not officially dating.So these signals were somewhat enough for me to decide and make my move. (He might have decided not to make his move first because I have just got out of a four years relationship and might not want to be my rebound) Im not sure how he will take it, but I would never know unless I give it a try. Any suggestions on what to do, when the right time is and what the right setting should be? (He has his own place, and I sometimes go to watch a movie or help him out with his computer)
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 11:58am

I would say the best thing is to tell him how you are feeling and ask him if he wants this relationship to go farther then being friends.

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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:03pm
Tell him how you feel about wanting to be intimate with him and see what he says...if all signs lead to yes...then wait a while and just go for it.

Christi

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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 5:53pm
I'm not into talk - if I want to make a move, I just do it.

CL-Yasmin1967

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Registered: 11-26-2003
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 1:09pm
Yasmin, how would I know that the chemistry is palpable? Any certain indications, that might help define the right moment?