Playing w Youself During Sex.

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Playing w Youself During Sex.
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 11:59am
I have a question for the ladies...I dont O during sexual inter. but.....I do during oral and I want to during Sex as my DH is upset because I cant when we are going at it...Do any of you play with yourself??? Do you use any toys?? Any suggestions on what positons might be good to try this in???

I am a little shy to the fact that I want to do this as I dont want him to see me do it but I want him to be in me when I go so that we can both exp. this togeather.

TIA,

Christi

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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:03pm
Try being on top with your back to him. You can manually stimulate yourself and he doesnt have to watch until you feel comfortable with it.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:18pm

Yes, most of the time I do unless I'm already at the point of exploding and I don't need to.

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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 3:31pm
FWIW: I almost always play with myself during sexual encounters, as does just about every lover I can ever remember. Yeah, it's definitely hot when the girl pleasures herself during intercourse. No douddabouddit!
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 11:54am
I am a guy but please do. Use both hands, one working a nipple and one on your clit or what ever helps you get to the big O. If he doesn't love it he is a lot different than I am. I love to see that wave of pleasure and feel the contractions when a woman gets her climax.
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:26pm
From one guy's perspective:

My SO, fortunately, is very orgasmic, and capable of orgasming from intercourse alone much of the time.

But she often plays with herself while we are having intercourse, and as I have told her many times, I find this highly erotic and arousing. I think almost all men would feel the same way.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:38pm
Oh yes, sometimes I play with myself while we're fooling around, if I can get my hubby's hands and fingers out of my way, that is. His hands are everywhere on me. lol. If you aren't climaxing during intercourse, if you try a little anal play along with intercourse, I'll bet you'll climax! Hard not to! Let him use his finger around that area. If you don't want it to go inside, then just have him play around the outside of that area. Or maybe have him really smother you with some good oral - using lots of tongue - and then have him enter you. I'll bet you'll be so worked up over the oral, that you'll climax during intercourse! Worth a try! ;)


Edited 5/24/2004 5:38 pm ET ET by tiana_rose