For the Men

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For the Men
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:04pm
What do you think is the most sexiest thing a woman can do to herself or to you??

I want some new suggestions for myself to do to or with my DH.

TIA,

Christi

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:38pm

I'm not a guy, but I know what my Dh loves.

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 1:05am
Dirty talk. The dirtier, the more descriptive, the more profane, the better.

Mainly because the more graphic the language, the less inhibited I feel she is.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 2:45pm
I would have to agree with dirty talking, but my hubby always tells me I'm sexist when I'm wearing a little bra, a sheer top, and a skirt with no undies. He loves that. He says he loves knowing that with one pull on the bra, he can expose a breast. Or when I'm washing dishes, he loves to come up from behind and take my bra partly down and feel up my skirt. It IS sexy!
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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 3:46pm
For me, I enjoy my wife's touch to my eyebrows, ears, and neck. It lets me know she wants me as the total person. mac

 

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 1:50am
Ok, thought of a couple more.

Foreign languages. If my wife could whisper (hell, shout would be ok too) in a foreign language while I was inside her. Oh my.

Uhm, here's another one... not bathing. If she can hold off bathing for a couple or three days and I go down on her. I love how she tastes.

Mutt

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Registered: 12-22-2003
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 8:20am
Congratulations on Madison! We just had a Madison on April 9th! What I like best is confidence, exploration & that she listens to what I like & tries it without me having to specifically ask about it. I also like variety, it truly is the spice of life! One day she can be in lingere & that is great anothe she can be in one of my old tshirts & thats the best. One thing that really gets me though is that she has a couple of really nice perfumes & like a lot, the original victoria's secret & onella for example, & puts just hints of it behind her ear & base of her neck. She then subtley puts herself in places where I will catch a small scent of it...that's the beauty, it's just enough to get my attention & draw me closer. Finally, I discovered sometime ago that men's nipples are every bit as sensitive as a womans can be & mine are. It's like starting an engine or a green light, we are kissing & then she touches me there... it's like Emeril says...it kicks it up a notch. Try it he may like it!

Stephen

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 10:29am
Stephen,

I replied to your post about being in the saddle again...Congrats on your Madison :)!

I do mess with MY DH's nipples a lot I love them!!! I will pinch them and bite and run my nails etc it is wonderful.

Christi

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Tue, 05-25-2004 - 11:44am
In my opinion as a man, Tish nailed it the best. Enthusiasm is the key to great sex as far as I am concerned. If my SO is not showing any excitement, any reaction, any enthusiasm for the things I am doing to her, or what she is doing to me, I am not going to get into it. But she is sexy as hell when she shows me her Joy in giving, or recieving. Being overtly sexual before hand is great as well. Foreplay for me starts long before the bedroom door is opened to enter. It starts while we are just getting home from work sometimes. Other times when life gets in the way, it starts when we are getting dressed to go out somewhere, or while we are out, and progresses to the bedroom. Then it just turns hot and heavy. Really great sex involves both parties complete attention, enthusuaism, and mutual enjoyment. Good luck!!!!
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Registered: 05-09-2003
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 7:42pm
I really like dirty talk -- to me it's a sign the woman is really into it.

Plus it highlights her sexual side!

By dirty talk that means both in and out the bedroom. At dinner in a restaurant, whisper in his ear what you're going to do to him when you get home (or what you want him to do to you). Then when you get home, just talk filthy! That really turns me on.

Another thing I've found I really like lately is unsolicited blowjobs (always liked those) while my wife is clothed (maybe in a little spaghetti strap tanktop).

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 8:50am
Where to begin?

Some favs as they come to mind...

Confidence in bed and seeing her enjoying what she's doing.

Kissing me on my neck and under my earlobe.

Unsolicited enthusiastic BJ's with lots of saliva, as already mentioned, are great.

Wearing sexy lingerie.

Being vocal at the right time, or at least a bit talkative in bed.

Trimming/shaving her pubic hair. Letting me trim it for her is pretty sexy.

Masturbating in front of me, and/or using a vibrator on herself.

Masturbating while I'm in her, or using the head of my penis to masturbate herself.

Being interested in trying new things.

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