Multiple Orgasms

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Multiple Orgasms
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:21pm
Being with the same man for 8 years and nobody to compare him to Ive never had multiple orgasms. I know everyone is different sexually and its probably normal but the sex is usually great for both of us. I cant figure out why I havent during intercourse. With him preforming oral I "go" everytime sometimes twice. Is there a reason I cant have multiples during intercourse? Any info helps. Thanks
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Sun, 05-23-2004 - 12:19am
The likely reason is that you aren't getting direct clitoral stimulation during intercourse and you are with cunnilingus. I can sometimes have multiples during intercourse AFTER having lots of foreplay and continuing the manual stimulation during intercourse but I always can with manual or oral stimulation. Manually stimulate yourself and see what happens.
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Sat, 05-29-2004 - 5:23am
I was married for many years to a man with a small penis... I never had multiple orgasms. Now I know that many women say that size makes them no difference... but now I am going out with a younger man with an extremely large penis. Unlike my husband, he can bring me to an orgasm in any position and nearly every single time I have multiple orgasms. It is not just a physical thing - I believe that visually and mentally I get turned on when I just see his size... Last night he made love to me while we were standing up --- something that would have never excited me before - it was unbelievable ... my legs got weak and I thought I would pass out from the shear excitement... that is my take on that matter.
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Sat, 05-29-2004 - 8:27pm
As you said, the mental and visual stimulation of his size/age has something to do with that. The brain is our main sex organ, after all.
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Sun, 05-30-2004 - 8:56pm
Is there a time element involved? A recent thread revealed that many men cum after 3-5 miniutes of intercourse, and probably most women need more than this.

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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 7:38am
How long can a man last is very important... Under the right circumstances I will usually have an orgasm within the first 10 minutes and many men cannot last that long... in addition, a man who can continue after that point will generally bring me to multiple orgasms. The younger guy I am dating is not only endowed, but he has lots of stamina... generally we have about 10 minutes of foreplay and the actual intercoarse can range from 10 minutes to a half hour. The last time we had sex I know I experienced at least 7 or 8 full blown orgasms. What amazes me that even after I feel as though I can't go any longer, he slows down for a few minutes and lets me down easy, then he slowly brings me back up... I don't know if that is common for most women... it wasn't for me... but it has been amazing! I know his size does matter (physically, mentally and visually)but his stamina and technique just add to the whole package.
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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 1:09pm
You new lover's ability to last for a long time may be as important as his size. Is he ejaculating and then continuing, or does he take 20+ minutes to ejaculate? I can go for a long time without ejaculating and my DF has multiple orgasms every time, and I'm strictly average in size. Thrusting techniques and positions can make a difference, too. A lot of it may be you, too, as my DF can orgasm in almost any position.

taoist
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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 6:40pm
"What amazes me that even after I feel as though I can't go any longer, he slows down for a few minutes and lets me down easy, then he slowly brings me back up..."

THAT RIGHT THERE was exactly what I was talking about on the other string. LOL!!

My wife could almost quote you exactly. I didn't become 'better' for her because of my size nor because I got better with foreplay alone...I got better for her DURING sex as well.

Although everybody knows that the brain is the main sex organ around here, its the way you're treated and the way you are enjoyed during sex that I see as the main significant difference between what you have now and what you've had before. All factors involved, but I still truly believe, as I have all along, that this one you mentioned is the most significant difference. No matter how much my wife enjoys what I already do and improved on, theres so much pleasure in learning even more for the both of us. I'm curious, has your new beau said anything interesting about "you" as well?

You've got such a real winner in your life (at least when it comes to sex anyway). VERY good for you! Thumbs up! ;)

 

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