Doesn't cum...ever!!!??

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Doesn't cum...ever!!!??
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Sun, 05-23-2004 - 6:43pm
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a few months now, though it is not that frequent because we only see each other a few times a week/are rarely alone. I have written to y'all before and you said that it's OK if a man doesn't always cum. But my boyfriend NEVER does- he only has three times. I feel like he is harder when we start than when we are in the middle of sex. I always ask him how I can improve but he says it's fine/good. But I feel like when he cums, I know he is really satisfied. I want him to crave sex from me all the time, and I feel like he doesn't. Is this why? Do I need to turn him on more? or what is the problem?!?! Any advice/tips would be really appreciated!

Please help!! Thanks so much in advance.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 7:02pm
Kit, give it time and once again, stop worrying about it. I know, it's hard but there's really nothing you can do to help the situation. And honestly, making it an issue could be making it worse. I would say the same thing to a man who was concerned about his partner, too. Most of the time, patience will be rewarded but please, resist the urge to pressure him, subtlely or otherwise!

Trust your guy, if he says it's fine, then believe him. When he wants your help, I'm sure he'll ask for it. Until then, let him guide you in pleasing him.

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Registered: 12-19-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 12:52pm
Orgasms for a woman can be plenty and fun, but for a man it's only once. Some men enjoy the ride more then the outcome. Try going again when you can and maybe a little male G-spot stimulation