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| Sun, 05-23-2004 - 7:26pm |
Why is it that my husband won't masturbate in front of me? I have tried over and over and over again to tell him how much I want this and still he is too shy. We have been having sex for nine years now and I would like to know if he will ever do this for me. OUr sex life is great but this one thing he won't do for me. If we're having sex and I mention it, and he tries, he loses his erection and crams up. He gets mad at me now for keeping on asking him, but I really want this. Should I give up?

Christi
Leticia
He KNOWS you'd like for this to be part of your sexual activity, now leave it alone. It MIGHT enhance your sex life but it's not a deal breaker, you aren't being deprived because he doesn't do it for you.
Respect the fact that he thinks that masturbation is a private act. In the future, he may change his mind. But that should be his decision. IF you pressure him into finally doing it....he WILL resent you for it!