Pornographic male on male?

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Pornographic male on male?
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Mon, 05-24-2004 - 1:22pm
Hello. I saw the other post which inspired my query. How many of the men(or SO's of women), would not mind watching male on male or, yes, homosexual porn and do you get turned on? I happen to love it, but my DH doesn't. I don't understand, because I've had to watch woman on woman porn for twenty years and it did nothing for me, but yet, he has a real aversion to watching men. Double standard...blech. Would any of you have a problem watching male on male, or women, would your SO? If so, why? Thanks!


Edited 5/24/2004 1:28 pm ET ET by last_hurrah

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 1:29pm
We watched one male on male film once and neither of us could sit through the whole thing. It does nothing for my hubby or me - so that's out. I don't think it's a double standard as much as it is that two women and-or a male on female are more sexy to watch than two men. Personally, I find it digusting, but then I'm sure some of the things we do, others would find disgusting. To each, their own.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 1:38pm
Well, I asked DH and he said he didn't know if he'd watch one. He said he would probably laugh at it. I have never seen a guy on guy, although I have seen men masturbating. What may I ask do you like about it? Is it all the testosterone?

Leticia

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Registered: 10-09-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 1:39pm
I happened to stumble across gay porn on the net a few years back. It was quite erotic. The men were nothing like mainstream porn actors. They were actually quite hunky and sexy. All of the penis action made me quite aroused. It wasn't a gay thing, it was two men having sex and it was erotic. My DH is like yours. He doesn't find it arousing at all, which I don't have a problem understanding, because I don't find two women arousing.
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 1:53pm
I have never watched M/M movies...I can not say rather I would or would not like them...I have joked about watching them but maybe someday I will untill then I can only guess what watching one would intell.

Im sure my DH would not like to watch one w me although he does like seeing women togeather and he knows that F/F turns me on.

Christi

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Mon, 05-24-2004 - 4:28pm
Don't go for any of it, but I agree with you, your DH has a double standard, big time. Anal and oral sex are the same whether it's man on man or man on woman. What's the difference?
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Mon, 05-24-2004 - 4:52pm
i think some gay porn is hot. i've mentioned it to various bfs, a few were open to it, but it never actually happened just because it wasn't that big of a deal to either of us. we have a gay porn theater in town and i keep thinking of going on a date there -- maybe one of these days i'll actually go.

male touching is simply more taboo than female touching. many men find it threatening to their masculinity. also, much of film (not only porn) is from the male gaze because men make up the majority of film-makers. hence it is often male fantasy that is depicted on screen. men and women are more familiar and accepting of seeing male fantasy on screen, which includes lots of hot young chicks. it is arguable that women even appropriate male fantasy and it becomes their own just by virtue of seeing it so often -- hence the women don't mind seeing girl/girl action, and may even get turned on by it, while men continue to be squeamish about male/male porn.

i find this whole topic fascinating because the grand finale money shot in straight porn is arguably very homo-erotic in that usually a male viewer is getting off watching the man on screen orgasm, but it is non-threatening because it is framed in the straight context.

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Mon, 05-24-2004 - 4:56pm
Great points! I wonder if any of the men are going to keep avoiding this thread? tee hee
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Registered: 01-10-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:24pm
sugarbeat,

that was a great answer .i am a bi male. men feel that watching to men have sex makes them feel less masculine. well how many of those men like when their s/o plays with their anus. i have read alot of posts where they enjoy it. does that make them any less of a man .HELL NO.

alot of women complain that every porno has a lesbian scene.like the movie makers cant avoid it. well since mostly men purchase porno movies they make it for there liking. also alot of women seem to enjoy the lesbians scenes to.

there should be no objection for a male s/o to watch a gay film with there s/o if that is what she would like to see. men are very headstrong and not open to new things especially when it comes to sex.

men are taught or brought up to understand that women are beautiful , fraigle people. they are more loving , compassionate and understanding. watching two women make love is viewed i would say as heavenly.

watching a gay porno that is made well is worth watching .

sorry i just started rambling on.

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 2:50am
O.K. I will step up to the plate. I don't watch a lot of porn but if I am going to watch for my pleasure if will be mainly featuring women because that is what I like. If my SO wanted to watch male on male porn for her pleasure I would watch it just to see her have a good time. I don't think it would do anything for me but I could be wrong.
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Registered: 03-25-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 7:41am
its very very very disgusting for me (yooooookkkk)

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