Is it OK to obsess over procreation?

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Is it OK to obsess over procreation?
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Tue, 05-25-2004 - 1:47am
I always thought it was the clock ticking but 3 children later and the knowledge that more is not a great idea, I am still obsessed with getting pregnant as being the BIGGEST turn on during sex. I am newly divorced and when I meet men, I always run from those who brag about a vasectomy!! Is this normal or am I the only crazy one out there that that ties getting pregnant with sex??
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Tue, 05-25-2004 - 1:58am
Well, I'm sure the men you don't run from, will run from you when they find out how you feel! LOL!

To obsess means to be preoccupied to an EXCESSIVE degree with something so, no, I don't think that's a healthy outlook.

IF you simply can't separate sex from procreation, then maybe you should look into some counseling to find out why. I'm sure this isn't an uncommon fixation though.

But since you don't indicate that this has hindered your sex life to a great degree or caused your divorce, then it shouldn't result in too many problems.






Edited 5/25/2004 2:09 am ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 8:33am
Can only speak for myself, but the only time I tied in getting pregnant with sex was when we were
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