Back in the saddle

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Registered: 12-22-2003
Back in the saddle
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Tue, 05-25-2004 - 8:07am
So! After almost 2 months of abstinence, we have been able to start making love again after having our baby girl. I cant believe how incredibly good it is now! We were pretty active during the pregnancy & enjoyed each other very much. There were times when we both had problesm, especially me & I got very self conscious about it which led to more problems. Sooooo.... when we were getting ready the other night, I was wondering what it was going to be like now, how she was going to feel, if I was going to fail... But I didn't dwell on it, but just went with the flow of things. I didn't have any problems, it was incredible, she asked for more & we wet the bed! (Sorry if that's a bit too graphic!) It was just mind blowing, intense & very intimately emotional. We were both very happy to be part of each other again.

Stephen

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 9:43am
Sounds like you both had a great time Stephen and glad all went well.
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 10:23am
Stephen,

I know the feeling my DH and I just had our first born in FEB 2004....Sex was great after the 6 wks of not getting any...lol....just hurt like hell for me the first few times!!! I am very happy that things are back to normal again.

CONGRATS on your baby....enjoy your litte one they are GREAT!!

Christi

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Registered: 12-22-2003
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 10:40am
Thanks ladies! I am enjoying both our wonderful little girl & re-discovering mommy as well. It's sorta funny... out of chaos comes order( the wildness ofe sex creates a baby) then out of order comes chaos(the new baby imparting her design on existing schedules!) We are slowly but certainly adjusting. On the night I referenced we also had our first tub bath in I cant remember how long...that was one of our special times. Last night we also spent some special time out on the deck under the stars listening to the bug zapper(red neck entertainment at its finest!) & just talking. When we were teenagers we spent a lot of time late at night on the phone, last summer when I found her again I was in New York & she was back home in Georgia, so we spent a lot of late night time on the phone as well. Since moving back & with the baby & all we have just been in the fast lane & our time seemed like it was rushed & so short. While it still seems short & sometimes rushed, there is a new quality simmilar to what we shared in the past. I was just telling her earlier how much I missed our talks & that I didn't care if she talked about rayon, I just loved to hear her voice I what she has to say. I am very fortunate to have her in my life, to have found her again (after 17 years) and that we have been so blessed with our beautiful baby girl. I also am greatful that our love life mirrors all the other good things we share. Though I dont think I am always the best, she is very appreciative of what we share, just as I am. I cant say that I have ever been with anyone who echoes back nopt only love but appreciation for me. She is a wonderful woman & I would be incredibly lost & empty without her.

Stephen

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 10:45am
Stephen,

That is sweet!!! I feel for my DH what you feel about your wife..I am so glad to know there are ppl out there that feel the way that I do, so much love and compassion for thier DH or DW.

Christi

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 1:52pm
That's great! Sex for me reached a new level of intimacy after the birth of our first child. Congrats on the baby. What are the stats anyway?

Leticia