My boyfriend urinated during oral sex

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Registered: 05-25-2004
My boyfriend urinated during oral sex
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Tue, 05-25-2004 - 9:33am
The other night I was performing oral sex on my boyfriend, he thought and so did I that he was cumming but to both of our surprise it wasn't cum it was pee. As you can imagine I was quite disgusted and a little freaked out. My boyfriend was extremly embarrassed and apologetic. I had tried a little trick I had read in a magazine about anal stimulation during oral sex. Could this have caused him to urinate? Has this ever happened to anyone else out there? Any advice?
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Tue, 05-25-2004 - 10:25am
I have messed with my mans back side while oral he seems to like it and his orgasims are much more intense!! He has never p'd....only his man juice.

Sorry this happend to you...I guess better luck next time.

Christi

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 2:58am
Your 'little trick' no doubt involved stimulating the prostate gland. It sits at the base of the bladder and while it usually feels pretty darned good having it stimulated there are probably some unusual side effects sometimes. One of which you have discovered. Probably won't happen again, but it might. If you feel up to it, go a bit more gentle next time and see what happens.

Note that men that have had prostates removed or partially removed due to prostate cancer are frequently incontinent.

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 1:06pm
YOu did probably stimulate the prostate gland. It probably won't happen again. Tell you partner that what happens usually happens if you stimulate him analy. Don't be emabarrassed, it happens.

Better luck next time.

jaime
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 1:25pm
I've always heard that it was impossible to urinate while erect, something about a "valve" that closes the urethra during an erection. But, unfortunately, every human being is made a little differently, so maybe he doesn't have that valve. If it's the first time it happened, it could just have been a fluke. Try NOT stimulating the prostate next time, and see what happens.

If it will make you feel any better, unless he has a bladder infection, urine is as "sterile" as drinking water.....if you're lost in the desert, you can drink your own urine! So, you can't get sick from it......I know, it's just the "thought" of it.

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 3:37pm
He should see a doctor. It is nearly impossible for a healthy man to urinate when he has a full erection. With a partial erection its difficult but can be done with some effort.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 3:46pm
I would second that advice. In all the years with my DH, he has never leaked urine when he was partially or fully erect. This could be an infection or some other problem.
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Registered: 10-10-2003
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 3:50pm
It's absolutely impossible for it to leak! A couple of times in my life, during sex I've all of a sudden really had to go, and I get up and like stand there for in front of the loo for five minutes waiting for it to deflate before I can go at all. It's actually a very inconvenient "feature" of the male body.