sexy way to into lube into sex

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Registered: 05-25-2004
sexy way to into lube into sex
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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 3:07pm
I have been on the depo BC shot for 6 years, and the only side effect I have the the vaginal dryness during sex. I talked to my husband about my needed additional lube during sex. I could tell he was a little uncomfortable about the idea, but it hurts to not use it. Is there any way that during sex when I need it that I could introduce it without killing the mood?

thanks

jaime
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 3:17pm
The best and sexiest way is to have him lube you. He needs to get out of the feeling "uncomfortable" about it. It's not much fun to lube yourself, IMO. When the man does it, it's very nice.
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 3:25pm
That sounds like a great idea! We will try it. Is there anything that I can say/do to make him feel less uncomfortable about it??
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Registered: 03-30-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 3:37pm
Have you considered trying vaginal lubricant suppositories. They come in scented and unscented. You may insert a suppository 1 hour to 6 hours before having sex. You can tell him you are using the product however, if it makes him uncomfortable, he doesn't have to be there when you are inserting it.

Just a suggestion.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 3:43pm
I'm sure if you tell him it hurts you otherwise (due to the side-affect) that he would be glad to ease your discomfort. I don't know why he wouldn't want to use some lube on you. It makes everything more slick and wet. Most men, I would imagine, would like it. The wetter, the better is what I hear!
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 3:43pm
WOW!!!!!!!!! I have never heard of that before. Where can you get them from?? I have never seen them. This news thrills me! Thank you sooooooooooooooo much

jaime
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 4:48pm
Just keep the bottle close by.
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