hubys bday friday..need ideas

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Registered: 05-25-2004
hubys bday friday..need ideas
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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 10:27pm
i want to do something diferent but im very shy about triing new things so nothing far out please. he likes oral and hes my first that ive done oral with so maybe some pointers on this. as far a sex im usully on the bottem,he wants me on top but im terrified of that.maybe some pointers on how to be more vocal nothing crazy like i said im very shy. any ideas welcome.were not drinkers so i cant take a sip for courage..
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 12:02am
Being on top took me some time to get the hang of as well. I sit kneeling on him while he's onhis back, and I sort of rock/grind back and forth. I am usually manually stimulating my clit while I do this, and he finds it a huge turn on to watch me pleasure myself while I ride him. As for oral, I start out by gently licking and sucking, and increase in how vigorous as he gets more turned on. I look up in his eyes, giving him naughty looks as I go ;o) I will sometimes moan, which lets him know how much I am enjoying giving him pleasure. Just be enthusiastic, he'll love that you love pleasuring him. One thing I might suggest is letting him watch you masturbate if he would like it and you're not too shy. Big turn on for alot of guys. Maybe a naughty new position? Breast sex?

Leticia

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Thu, 05-27-2004 - 12:03pm
I cannot tell you how shy I was about being on top! I did it for the first time the other day and it was EXCELLENT! Just because you are on top doesn't mean you have to do all the work. One thing I did to get an idea of what to do on top was to go to www.ampland.com and watch some pornstars and how they do it on top. It work so don't knock it until you see it. Seeing it happen is a great way to get an idea of what is going on. I love this way now because we both get to see what is going on and he kisses my chest. drives me nuts! GO FOR IT! get something sexy to wear too. Do something that is TOTALLY out of your norms and he will love it. Some guys go crazy for inexperience too.

As for oral, my guy loves it when I look at him and moan. Kiss his penis with soft gental kisses.

Try introducing flavored lube too. FUN FUN

HOpe it helps. Let us know how it goes.

Jaime
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Thu, 05-27-2004 - 3:52pm
My suggestion is to try anything new at night, in the dark first. Once you become more comfortable, then begin introducing a little light, say, from the next room or from a nightlight or candle. With time and confidence, you'll feel more comfortable being on top or being more vocal, etc. in the daytime or with the lights on.