Reaching the big "O"

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Reaching the big "O"
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Thu, 05-27-2004 - 6:13pm
Ive been with my fiance for about 2 years now and we very much enjoy making love. I just have one problem-everytime I'm about to let loose and orgasm, it seems like everything just stops; the feeling just goes away. It's like I stop myself or something. What the h--- is going on with me? Any insight?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 8:43pm
When you feel it coming on, do you start thinking about it happening?

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 6:13pm
I don't know how :( i always kept thinking it would get better and it would just happen...i'd never leave over this but...i don't know....
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Registered: 05-04-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 6:17pm
that happens to me too!! i havent been able to orgasm because all of a sudden - it will just STOP! even though my BF continues what he was doing. dont get me wrong - it feels great... and my lower body begins to go numb. but the feeling will just go away/stop. it is really frustrating because i can tell i'm on the brink.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 6:46pm

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 6:48pm

Hi Ruledbynone,


I just posted info and some links to the OP.


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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 7:06pm
To me, it sounds like an emotional block. Are you worried that you might be embarrassed by what you say or do when you O? Do you start thinking "This is it!" and lose the O?

Leticia

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Sun, 05-30-2004 - 8:12pm
I guess I have to learn a little about my own body as well. But even during foreplay, I tend to stop his hands when it gets a little too exciting. I physically push back his hands. Also, when I'm on top is the only time it gets exciting. Tradition man on woman doesn't do anything. Is that because of the way we're moving? I know that many women can't get orgasm's though the traditional position.

Thanks for everyone's insight..and i'll have a look at those sights you posted Tish!