Is having cybersex with someone other...
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| Fri, 05-28-2004 - 1:47pm |
Is having cybersex with someone other than your partner cheating.
- Yes
- No
You will be able to change your vote.

If your S/O is aware of it, isn't bothered by it - and it is not affecting your 'real' sex life, then No - I don't think it would be considered cheating.
I also think holding hands and things of that nature are forms of cheating. There are no reasons for inappropriate contact,talking or typing for this matter with anyone other than your partner.
It really is the best definition because every couple has is own set of "rules."
Some people do threesomes, which isn't cheating because the other party knows and is willingly participating. I would sit in a guy friend's lap at a bar, in front of my fiance or behind his back. He wouldn't care. But, other couples may consider that inappropriate touching.
So its really up to each couple to define things like that. I answered yes on the survey because I think typically its behind the person's back. If the other person knew and didn't care, then I'd say no its not cheating (its being permitted.)
Sara
I agree with Gossip on this, it depends on the people involved and what their definition of cheating is.