How old do you have to be

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Registered: 05-31-2004
How old do you have to be
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Mon, 05-31-2004 - 9:21pm
How old do you have to be before you can start having sex with a guy?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 10:10pm

Old enough to be able to handle *maturely* the emotional and physical aspects of sex. Old enough to realize that sex isn't going to 'get' you a man or keep a man.

Tally33 "Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 10:31pm
I think how old is pure opinion....I can not anwser this question for you.

Good Luck.

Christi

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Registered: 11-30-2003
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 11:12pm
If you are asking this question, then you are NOT old enough! :P
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Registered: 01-03-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 11:33pm
old enough to not have to ask this question.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 11:41pm
Physically, 10 or 11 is old enough.....Mentally, and maturity, old enough to accept the responsiblity of seeing a doctor, getting on birth control, being prepared to be a single Mother when you get pregnant, and he walks away from you because he's too young to be a father.

When you understand that sex is an expression of love, it's NOT a way to GET love. When you understand that you do it because you feel it's right, not because your peers are doing it.

As the other poster said, if you have to ask, you're way too young. What you need to do is ask your Mom how old she thinks you should be!

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Registered: 04-19-2003
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 12:00am

>>When you understand that sex is an expression of love, it's NOT a way to GET love. <<


Methinks there are quite a few older people that could learn this lesson too ;-)

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Registered: 11-30-2003
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 12:53am
15 and five months... just teasing. There's no right age... do it when you know you wont regret it and you trust that you've taken care of yourself, emotionally and physically.
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Registered: 11-07-2003
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 1:02pm
My dear old dad once said... "Not until you're thirty!"
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 3:39pm
When you are old enough and mature enough to take on the responsibilities that come along with a sexual relationship.

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