"The Point of No Return"

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"The Point of No Return"
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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 1:24pm
Hey ladies. You've often heard the expression that MEN have a "Point of No Return" in which they KNOW when they're about to orgasm. I have consciously paid close attention to this over the years, and it is my conclusion that I have one too. I was just curious as to how many other women feel that there's a quick sequence of two or three seconds before orgasming(I like to call it the climb to the top ;-)) where orgasm is imminent? Is this just another unstudied part of women's sexuality or am I alone with this?
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 1:39pm
Nope, I have it too. I start having a few contractions just before the orgasm hits. When I feel those, I know I will orgasm immediately after. Not just that, but my body starts shaking when I start to get close, but just before I orgasm I suddenly stop shaking. Weird.

Leticia

Personally, I think as soon as they enter a vagina it's a point of no return for them ROFL. A comic named Margaret Cho was saying that men don't understand close, because men are *always* close ROFL.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 3:07pm

No, you're not alone.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 3:23pm
Hmmmmm, I seem to be able to control even an imminent orgasm just by stopping all stimulation or changing it so that I can let go when I want.

Not sure if this is due to practicing during self stimulation or what but I don't seem to have a "point of no return."


Edited 6/1/2004 3:37 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 4:36pm
Oh, I definately have a point of no return. Like you said, two or three seconds before, I know it is coming and there is no stopping it...no matter how hard I fought it, not that I have ever wanted to. ;) I think men can just be easier to study and understand where as to a lot of men, us women are "just another one of life's unsolved mysteries." <- As told by my SO.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 5:14pm
Agree. I cannot control my orgasms, nor want to! I can barely tell my hubby I'm climaxing - I can't hardly talk when it's about to happen.