THINKING ABOUT IT DRIVES ME WILD... ; )

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THINKING ABOUT IT DRIVES ME WILD... ; )
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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 7:05pm
Someone needs to shoot me down or something here, I think. My husband and I have been married for three and a half years, I am a student finishing up my second major, my husband works full-time, we have no kids, we stay busy, but not that busy. Anyway, our sex life is nothing special, I can't say that it ever has been or that I ever think that it will be. I am very attracted to my husband and we love each other very much. My husband has a made a new friend (Jimmy) through his work and we have been trying to get Jimmy and my best friend of ten years together. My husband and I both think that they would be good together, they seem to have a lot in common, but are still very different. Anyway, my husband has invited Jimmy over to our home a couple of times and he is a very nice guy, he is a big guy, but seems very mellow, gentle, and polite at the same time. I can't say that he is the most attractive man that I have met, but his personality is very attractive to me. Anyway, this past weekend, my husband, my best friend, Jimmy, and I all met at the lake to grill and have some lazy fun. Anyway, when Jimmy showed up at our home, my husband answered the door and then they came in the kitchen to help me get things together so we could leave. We were loading things in the car and Jimmy was telling me about the previous day at work, but I had my back to him, so I put the bag that I was carrying in the car so that I could turn around and look at him when I was talking to him. So, I turned around and asked him a question and when he started to answer back I noticed that he had his tongue pierced. At that point, I might as well have started drooling, I totally forgot what I had asked him and it was like he was on mute or something. I just know I looked like a kid in a candy store and when I finally caught myself and looked back at him, it was obvious he could tell I had just left the conversation and got lost in my thoughts, so I had to excuse myself. But, anyway Jimmy and my best friend met and they seemed to be interested in each other, I really do hope that it works out for them. It makes me crazy when I notice that a man has his tongue pierced (especially, if they aren't always messing with it, like if I were to just catch a glimpse). So, for the past couple days I just keep thinking about it, I even had dreams about it for the past two nights in a row. I catch myself and with this stupid grin on my face. I have much more self control that it probably sounds like I have, but I just keep thinking "I would love to experience that just once in my life." Just thinking about it makes me really really hot. I feel so bad about thinking about stuff like this and like I have done something really really wrong. I would never ever cheat on my husband, I have asked him before if he has ever thought about getting his tongue pierced and he was really really against doing that. So, ladies I am curious!!! If you have experienced it or have a man with a pierced tongue what is it like??? I just have to know. ;)


Edited 6/1/2004 7:07 pm ET ET by kaybee1181

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 7:24pm
Thanks for a very funny and amusing post! haha! Put a smile on my face! I don't know anything about tongue piercings, but since reading your posts, I too, am curious!
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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 7:29pm

I have an idea.


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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 10:36pm
I am glad I put a smile on your face Tiana, I feel like all of this is kinda silly too, but fun none the less, in fact it makes me smile and feel kinda silly. That is a good idea Tish, thanks, I am definitely going to go shopping. Rare are the times that I actually get really turned on, and thinking about my husband getting his tongue pierced or just any man (I feel bad for saying that, but it is true) really turns me on, so maybe it is better left as a fantasy instead of reality. I am so curious though. I thought it would be a fun story to share and I needed to tell someone. ;)
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Wed, 06-02-2004 - 6:31am
Kaybee - sorry to inform you, but from what I have heard from female friends over the years, tongue piercings are no big deal when it comes to clitoral stimulation and create a negligible difference orgasmically. I have heard, though, that vertain type of penile (ouch) piercings can affect the inner vaginal walls and even the G-spot. Maybe if you wired the tongue bob to a 9volt battery you might get a result... LOL.

We (me and my close female platonic friend) have discussed all sorts of topics, especially when it comes (no pun intended) to piercings, because she has been considering a clitoral hood horizontal ring piercing. She recently decided against it as she was advised by a professional body piercer there are several risks involved in certain sexual female-on-top (her fave) positions that could cause tearing, nerve damage and/or permanent loss of sexual sensation. That info ended her quest for a clit ring permanently.

Several years back (pre-marriage), I remember having been given head by a girl I dated with a pierced tongue bob and she manipulated it into the tip of my penis while sucking somehow. It felt weird and slightly foreign, but I let her continue as I was nearly at the point of no return when she was inserting that as well as slipping in a finger (she was wild) into an erogenous area previously unexplored, of which location I will leave to your imagination. However, I should tell you that the inside of a man's penis is extremely sensitive and almost anything inserted burns (at least mine does) big time - I find it highly NON-erotic, however some men do not and enjoy it as a fetish.

If you really want a great stimulating experience from your husband, have him take a crescent shaped ice cube (not square) and suck the rough edges off it until it is shaped like a tiny banana, then clinch down on the middle of it with his teeth and slide it between the labia and gently around your clitoral hood area. That drives women wild. There also ice molds for all sorts of shapes available in adult stores or on eBay. Another item I have not yet tried, but know a friend who has is a sex toy... but it will take a man who lacks inhbitions and is unafraid to look silly. It is a chin-strap dildo which allows the wearer full penile-like penetration as well as direct complete oral stimulation with tongue, lips, teeth, etc. I hope to try that one of these days as I am very, very oral.

I hope I have given you a few ideas to further fulfill your marital sex life. Take care - Ted in AZ

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Wed, 06-02-2004 - 8:22am

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Wed, 06-02-2004 - 9:26am
I have had a tongue ring for several years now. My SO got one at the sam etime. Let me tell you, get one for yourself, and show your SO what it is like. He may want to do the same for you. It is awesome. Especially when it is nice and cold, or really hot. The sensations are awesome. She enjoys it as well. Like anything else you get used to it though, and when she takes hers out to give oral it is awesome as well. I had ticklers for mine, one that had a ring through the ball on the top. She said it felt like to tongues at once. I love my tongue ring, and would never take it out. If you get one, be sure to wait for at least two to three weeks before you get any semen on it. Semen or vaginal fluid.
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Wed, 06-02-2004 - 12:06pm
JT AND I BOTH HAVE OUR TONGUES PIERCED AND I MUST SAY THAT IT REALLY DEPENDS ON THE TONGUE ACTION ITSELF. IF THE GUY IS NO GOOD, THE TONGUE RING WON'T HELP HIM ANY. IT ALSO DEPENDS ON THE TPYE HE HAS IN. THE NORMAL BARBELL DOESN'T DO A WHOLE LOT FOR ME BUT WHEN HE HAS IN THE ONE WITH A HOOP ON THE END, IT DRIVE ME CRAZY!!! BUT IT'S NOT LIKE HE NEEDS IT TO BE GREAT. THERE ARE QUITE A FEW TIMES THAT I ASK HIM TO TAKE IT OUT. SOMETIMES I JUST LIKE THE WET FEELING OF HIS TONGUE COMPLETELY SURROUNDING AND PUSHING AGAINST ME. JMO...
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Wed, 06-02-2004 - 1:57pm
Jeep, a coupla questions.

Does food get trapped inside and do you have a lisp? Everyone I know that has one has a slight lisp and they've had them on for a few years. Doesn't the ball act as a stopper(or trap) for food and other debris? Do you have to do any extra cleaning steps?

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Wed, 06-02-2004 - 2:08pm
No food doesn't get trapped. No, I do not notice a lisp, unless I am drunk. LOL The only extra step I have to take is extra brushing of it once a week. The rest of the time normal scrubbing of the tongue with the brush does the trick.
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Wed, 06-02-2004 - 2:29pm
Well...if it's really a fantasy, why not mock it and live with it. In other words, if I really wanted to know what it felt like, I would probably give my DH a ball earring(or an object with a metal ball at the end[like an antenna ;-)), and that along with his tongue and my own juices, could moisten it and then make him roll it around along with his own pointed and flat tongue movements. I probably wouldn't notice much difference that the ball wasn't attached to his tongue. Oddly enough, I don't crave any cold metal object being pressed against my clitoris, so no need for my DH to get one. I also wouldn't want to tongue kiss a metal ball either. Additionally, no matter what anyone says, I feel it's a breeding ground for bacteria, just as the gums are a trap(which is why we floss) that brushing alone can't get to. Since your DH has already stated that he won't get one, why not buy some ball earring(I would think that a clip earing wouldn't fit because the tongue is thicker than the earlobe) or an antenna tee hee, and this way you can fantasize while he's doing it that he's actually wearing it.

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