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holding back
| Fri, 06-04-2004 - 3:16pm |
i've been dating this guy for about a month now- we have been very attracted to each other and when we are together we spend hours kissing, talking and fondling . we have have not had intercourse yet.
we have had oral and manual sex-
the problem is will not allow himself to ejaculate-
he pulls me away as he gets close-
he says he cannot fully open up yet- but he will soon he says- and he is trying hard-
he says that he orgasms through masterbation- i have not seen this-
i really care for this guy and don't understand how or why this could be- i also feel i little disturbed by this-
any comments or insight ?
we have had oral and manual sex-
the problem is will not allow himself to ejaculate-
he pulls me away as he gets close-
he says he cannot fully open up yet- but he will soon he says- and he is trying hard-
he says that he orgasms through masterbation- i have not seen this-
i really care for this guy and don't understand how or why this could be- i also feel i little disturbed by this-
any comments or insight ?

Time and experience with one another will usually take care of this problem though. Trust him to handle it and if he doesn't feel more comfortable with time, talk about it.
The best thing you can do right now is not to pressure him in any way, and let him deal with it.