Sex W/out a condom... im worried
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Sex W/out a condom... im worried
| Sun, 06-06-2004 - 4:42am |
I'm a guy, and I am curious if I should be worried about having sex with my girlfriend for the first time without a condom. We have had sex before but we used condoms, she just got on the pill. So should I be worried about stds? Plz help

You both should have been tested before having sex without a condom, but since it's too late, I would suggest both of you get tested now.
The "pill" doesn't protect against STD's.....and if she's been sexually active in the past without a condom, or in some diseases, even WITH a condom.......there's always a risk, unless she's been tested and found negative.
Of course, she's taking the same risk, if you've been sexually active in the past, too.
If you feel mature enough to be sexually active, then you should really educate yourself about all the risks BEFORE taking those risks. It's too late to worry about it AFTER you've done it.
"You say she "just" got on the pill, but are you aware that it's not effective for the first month? It takes a full month of use to stop ovulation."
To be safe, use condoms that you bring each and every time. They not only protect form most diseases but also the "dreaded disease of pregnancy"! Which is the one that costs the most in the long run! Since each child costs $165,000.00 of your money to raise to age 17. (according to the latest USDA website)
Good luck! I would not touch her unless YOU are protected with condoms.
"Well if she forgets to take the pill, she becomes WAY more fertile than if she never took the pill at all so forgetting to take it is a recipe for pregnancy."
Could you define "way more fertile"?
Besides, if he's concerned about pregnancy, HE should be wearing a condom. It's pretty hard to 'trick' a man into fatherhood if he's not taking BC responsibility for himself.
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