Talked to SO about board

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Talked to SO about board
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Mon, 06-07-2004 - 3:30pm
O.K. This weekend has been a long one, but I am fairly certain that I am back. I have talked and talked to my SO this weekend, and one of the things she told me was her fears regarding this site. I used to be a cheater, as I had numerous affairs when I was married to my Ex. She doesn't want to think I will do it to her, but she cannot help feeling that way. I can understand her. But, when it was all said and done she told me she really doesn't mind my being on here, as she has seen some of the improvments it has made in me. So, I am back. For now anyway, and for as long as you all will have me. LOL Anyway, it was nice to see everyones posts to that thread. Made me think about things, and all of your being so supportive. Hope to have many years of "Changes" happen because of this message board, as my opinion is changing still. Not old and stuck in my ways, Just yet!!!! LOL
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 3:33pm
Glad to have you back. True, these message boards do more help than hindering in a relationship, I think. They help me, I know.
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Registered: 04-08-2004
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 3:36pm
I think you help yourself a lot more than you think Tiana. You are a good person inside, and you have to let it show. Believe in yourself is the main thing, and something I am having to learn all over again. It is rough at times, but with the people on this board that are truly here to help others, and not just make themselves feel better, it becomes much easier and tough times are more managable.
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Registered: 05-03-2004
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 3:42pm
So is it possible for your SO to join the board? Then her fears of you cheating would be dissapated, but then she would know where you get all your secret moves! lol!

Sandra

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 3:58pm
You know, since joining this board, I really haven't gotten any new moves. I have shared some of mine, but I have not read anything yet that i have not already done with her. LOL Not to say I have done everything under the sun that there is to do, but that I really haven't heard of anything new persay. LOL But, it is all good. She reads my posts often enough. She is a member already and has been for years. I am wondering if there is a way to look up old posts by a specific user. Tish, Any ideas??? Just curious. LOL I have searched, but it seems I have to search every single board, and cannot just search all the boards at once. LOL
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Registered: 05-14-2004
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 4:12pm
And may those changes come swiftly, if they are changes for the better, not worse. We are all glad to have you back!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 5:52pm

Glad to have you back Jeep.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 8:36pm
Welcome back Matt. Even though we disagree on a lot of things, I always enjoy hearing another point of view. Glad you and your So have worked some things out regarding the board.

Sara

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Registered: 06-08-2004
Tue, 06-08-2004 - 12:41am
I'm so glad to hear you'll be sticking around. I lurk here and the may/december board and was sad to see you go. You're a valuble part of the board. Good luck with your SO - sounds like you're on the right track.

M