What I call outercourse is not the same as dry humping. In fact, it's very, very wet. Usually, it's alternated with intercourse. The penis leaves your body, and beginning at the bottom, the penis slides upthrust through the vulva, over the clitoris. Then he slides it back down. This is done repeatedly. If you can visualize it, it's the same as intercourse, only it occurs on the outter body, not the inner. I can orgasm easily this way due to the clitoral stimulation and the stimuli to the vulva. It's also a great visual. One more thing that I love about it, is that you can alternate between intercourse and outercourse easily. I sometimes beg for either of them, but I sometimes leave it up to my DH to decide, and enjoy the tease. In other words, if I want to feel him inside of me, the urge gets stronger and stronger the longer I wait. When it finally comes(by his own doing), it's intense. He often alternates a few strokes in a few strokes out, one stroke in, one stroke out. Sometimes we never alternate and just stick with one. I love the different stimuli that each provides. In or out, it's all good.
My DH and I do this, too and we both enjoy it very much. Most of the time, we do it in the spooning position. Alternating the stimulation only heightens the anticipation and excitement, as you said.
No. I posted when others thought this was just humping each other with clothes on. That sounds like teenager stuff to me. I didn't know there was a name for everything! Outercourse? We do that all the time. Just didn't know it had a name! Then someone suggested it was humping with your clothes on. Very teenager-ish to me. That's all.
I agree. DH and I still dry hump. I will often straddle him when he's sitting in a chair and we dry hump! tee hee We ride each other's legs too, while we're giving oral. I don't know if this is the same thing, but we both love being rubbed(by hand) with just our underwear or clothing on. It makes for less friction and you have to press hard(pun intended) so it's like another tease.
for those of us that are single, dry humping is excellent for practicing safe sex. can get frustrating when you want more, but definitely better than nothing.
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Edited 6/9/2004 6:32 pm ET ET by free_to_choose
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