Touching me in the night
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Touching me in the night
| Thu, 06-10-2004 - 11:07am |
Well...I woke up the other night and found my husband groping my body while I was sleeping...I was so freaked out about it that I just pretended to be asleep. The next morning I woke up and realized how disgusted I was about the whole thing. I talked to him about it and he denyed the whole thing and still does. I have caught him doing this before and I told him to never do it again. I guess he doesn't listen. Either way I am really freaked out about it...I feel like I can't even go to sleep near him...is this a normal guy thing and am i just making to much of it, or is it just a really wierd thing for him to be doing.

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It may be that he doesn't know that he's doing it. I'm not really sure why you didn't call him on it when it was happening...then there is no question. Also interesting that you described yourself as "disgusted", that is a pretty intense word. You should investigate what it was about your husband touching your body that was disgusting. Seems pretty normal to me. Might be something there for you.
In the future, confront him when it happens...could even be that you were dreaming it and not him (LOL).
Peace.
Scott.
Leticia
I don't understand why you were so freaked or disgusted about it.
Maybe he doesn't remember doing it because he was asleep, too. You've heard of sleepwalking, haven't you? Well, maybe he sleepGROPES! It's possible that he's dreaming of touching you and that he begins doing it without realizing it.
Either way, I don't think it's something to worry or obsess about since he IS your DH, after all, not a stranger on a bus.
If you are offended because you feel it's a breach of trust or something, tell him to wake you up if he's in the mood for sex.
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