Ladies: how many dates before you'll...

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Ladies: how many dates before you'll...
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Thu, 06-10-2004 - 3:26pm

Ladies: how many dates before you'll have sex with a man.



  • 1-3
  • 4-6
  • 7-10
  • 11-15
  • 16-20
  • More than 20.
  • Need to be engaged.
  • On our wedding night.


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Registered: 05-18-2004
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 5:01pm
I have no idea how to answer that. It would depend on the person and where I was in my life. My DH and I waited about 2 1/2 months to have sex.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 5:08pm

For me, if I was in the dating game, I couldn't give you a direct


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 5:15pm
I wasn't sure how to answer this one either. I said "more than 20" because it was 3 mos. before my DH and I made love.

I never was one to jump in the sack quickly because I want to know who I'm sleeping with but I don't have a set time schedule for it either. I would never say 'Okay, this is our 12th date, let's get naked." Different relationships develop at different rates.

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Registered: 04-19-2003
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 11:06pm

I voted 1-3 dates because you didn't have the response "before our first date" ;-)


DH and I had sex on the day we met.

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Registered: 11-04-1999
Fri, 06-11-2004 - 7:43pm
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Registered: 03-12-2004
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 7:13pm
I prefer to wait for at least 4 dates. It seems that the rule is after 3 dates that means there should be sex. I have gone out with guys and if after the 3rd date the guy is a jerk because he didn't get sex then I know he maybe in it for only the sex. If the guy respects that I would like to wait a little bit more than I know he is ( hopefully ) a good guy.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 8:09pm
Couldn't put a number on this one...back when I was dating it happened when it felt right or it never happened.