Position Help

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2003
Position Help
2
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 10:04pm
Hi everyone,

I need some position suggestions if anyone can help. My guy and I had sex for the first time and it didn't go so well. He is a bigger guy weight wise, not huge, but has a tummy. We couldn't do the missionary position because he wouldn't stay in. Not sure if it was because of his belly or because he isn't that well endowed. We ended up doing it doggy style with him standing beside the bed because I'm a little taller than him. I would like to do something different but I don't know what to do. Any ideas? I'm not sure if getting on top of him would work or not. Thanks in advance!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2004
Fri, 06-11-2004 - 1:54pm
Yes, get on top of him. I was with a heavier guy once and I was on top quite often. Doggie and sideways standing up was also good.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2004
Fri, 06-11-2004 - 2:08pm
What tiana said was good. also, if you can get at a 90 degree angle that could help, like if you lay on a table and he stands up. also woman on top can be frustrating if you are trying to rock forwards b/c his tummy is in the way, but if you turn around and do backwards it allows you to be able to rock back and forth more easily.

sandra