Let's talk about sex drive!

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Registered: 05-15-2004
Let's talk about sex drive!
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Sat, 06-12-2004 - 11:20pm
From a guy's POV, I can tell you that most days I walk around pretty horny. I don't know if the old addage about guys thinking of sex every ten seconds is true, but I think about sex many times during a normal day, probably over 100 times or more. I'm single right now, and if I go a few days without maturbating I think about it more often.

Are women this way? I mean, I know in general women probably don't think about sex as often as men, but do you have times during a "regular" day when you get a little turned on, just out of the blue? Do you normally need some sort of stimulation before you get excited?

Just interested in thoughts/opinions.

Eric

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sun, 06-13-2004 - 12:47am
>>I mean, I know in general women probably don't think about sex as often as men<<

That's just a stereotype, and not really true at all ;o)

I think about sex alot, whether or not we are having it frequently. I have erotic dreams often, so I think about it at night too LOL. I can be thinking about anything and it will trigger thoughts of sex. Sometimes it can be the vibrations of the car that get me going. I told DH if I ever do get a motorcycle he'd never get me away from it ROFL.

Leticia

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Sun, 06-13-2004 - 2:07am
I don't believe that EVERY man thinks of sex every 10 seconds, I also don't believe that only a few women do either. I have the high sex drive in my marriage so that general consensus doesn't apply to us at all. I think men AND women run the gamut when it comes to libido.

I can turn myself on mentally and then be ready when my DH comes home, so no, physical stimulation isn't always necessary. I can fantasize with the best of them.

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Sun, 06-13-2004 - 9:38am

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Registered: 05-24-2004
Sun, 06-13-2004 - 11:16am
I think about sex alot but not nearly as musch as some of the guys that I know!!!!!

Also, I think it just depends on the situation!!! It takes something really specific to get me thinking about sex, whereas men it seems just have to see a pretty girl and thats that!!!!!

Cyndi
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Registered: 06-12-2004
Sun, 06-13-2004 - 11:51am
I think about sex all the time. Last night a storm woke me up and I woke up aroused and thinking of my lover. So even in my sleep, I think about sex, lol. I don't know how often I think about it but probably at least 100 times a day. And it is generally my thoughts not something I see that arouses me during the day. I'll think about an past encounter or perhaps be reminded of something I want to experience and then BAM I'm aroused, lol.
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Registered: 06-06-2004
Sun, 06-13-2004 - 12:27pm
This is so true! I have a much higher sex drive then my boyfriend...but like iv_jezebelle said about waking up, I have actually woken up in the middle of an orgasm...I dont remember what i was dreaming about but its happened once or twice in the past month! I think it is because my boyfriend and I are living apart (like 4.5 hours) right now and I am not getting enough sex!!

Jenn