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Virgin-about to have sex-soon-help!
| Sun, 06-13-2004 - 7:28pm |
Hello,
I am currently a virgin, and my bf and i will be having sex soon, im all ready on the shot and we will be using condoms, so i dont need "the sex talk". During foreplay i get all of the attention and he doesn't really let me or give me the chance to give back. I have offered before to give him a bj or a hj but he says no, its ok and brings his attention back to me (trust me im NOT complaining!)... I want to be good for him when we have sex, only i dont know how to do that. He's given me alot up to this point and when we have sex i really want him to be happy..... any hints, in this area or any other.. maybe even to make it better for me... please help a soon to be x-virgin,!!!!!!! thanks... you can e-mail me at traciwarnock@hotmail.com
I am currently a virgin, and my bf and i will be having sex soon, im all ready on the shot and we will be using condoms, so i dont need "the sex talk". During foreplay i get all of the attention and he doesn't really let me or give me the chance to give back. I have offered before to give him a bj or a hj but he says no, its ok and brings his attention back to me (trust me im NOT complaining!)... I want to be good for him when we have sex, only i dont know how to do that. He's given me alot up to this point and when we have sex i really want him to be happy..... any hints, in this area or any other.. maybe even to make it better for me... please help a soon to be x-virgin,!!!!!!! thanks... you can e-mail me at traciwarnock@hotmail.com

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The only hints I can offer is......make sure you are
If he is self-conscious of his weight, complimenting him and encouraging him that you love him just how he is, is good, but if it is an issue with him, that is something he has to deal with when he is ready to deal with it.
I think you need to back off, stay out of his room.....and let HIM do the initiating, IF and when he wants to.
>>hope to hear more suggestions on how to turn him on! <<
MMM....not an easy one.
Here you are saying you don't always start things and that he has told you he wants sex, but in your other post, you said you are always the one to initiate and he doesn't make it clear what he wants.
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