Sometimes i feel like a slut....
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| Sun, 06-13-2004 - 8:07pm |
My bf and I like to be alone often, in his room. And I wish that he would make it clear what his intentions are.. because I feel as though I am always the one to start something. And I've told him before that he doesn't have to worry about me not being in the mood, because if i agree to go into his room its a given that im up for just about anything. N E Ways, by always starting something i feel like i am begging him and that he doesn't want to do anything... and other times if we are getting into it, and he starts to get into forplay more, he will abruptly stop and try to carry on a conversation!, then is upset, by the time hes done talking that im not in the mood anymore. I've tried undressing myself for him, ive tried offering to give him a bj or hand job and he has turned them down... how do i make him so hot he wont stop for tea in the middle of forplay... please help.. i dont know how to make my bf horney!....

This is something you are going to have to talk to him about.
IF your situation were reversed, and YOU were the one always saying no and trying to distract him during foreplay, I would stress that you should speak up and say you're not ready yet.
Definitely TALK with him. You may be pressuring him to do things he doesn't really want to do. He may want to hold off until he feels more comfortable or there may be some other issue he needs to discuss.