Is size or stamina more important?

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Is size or stamina more important?
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Mon, 06-14-2004 - 2:47pm
The often-asked question about penis size got me wondering whether stamina or ability to have intercourse for a long time is important to women. After all, what good is 9", if it's done and gone soft in three minutes?

How about it ladies?

Would you rather have 7-9 inches that lasts 5 minutes?

OR

5-6 inches that lasts 20-30 minutes?



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Registered: 05-14-2004
Mon, 06-14-2004 - 2:52pm
To me, it's not about size, but what you can do with it. And although I would rather have 20-30 minutes of intimacy, if my SO could only last about 5 minutes, that's ok. Just as long as he can still give me pleasure in other ways. After all, he loves giving so much that when he is stressed out and doesn't last that long, after he pleases me for a while, his mood is usually greeting me again! LOL So I guess I would rather have 5-6 inches that lasts 20-30 mintues. That and also, my vaginal canal (I thnk I used the right term there) isn't very deep and more than 7 inches hurts. My SO and I are perfect in that respect!
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 06-14-2004 - 3:16pm
I need a man who knows how to use his penis AND a decent size. He doesn't have to be huge, but I had a lover once who had a very small penis and he was quite skilled, but he was too small for me and I definitely noticed. He made up for it in other ways and areas, but still. I guess I like to feel a decent size penis in my hand as well. It's more of a turn on than a small one.
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Mon, 06-14-2004 - 4:16pm
The latter probably. However, since my DH and I aren't dependent on intercourse for our pleasure, it really doesn't matter in the long run. I got what I wanted though, a good man.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 06-14-2004 - 4:38pm
Well, if DH could last longer I'd get the best of both worlds LOL. I can't really say which is more important, but if I had to choose it would be stamina.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-19-2003
Mon, 06-14-2004 - 6:30pm

That's a tough one because I desire neither size nor stamina.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 06-14-2004 - 6:44pm
If I have to choose,

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 4:39pm
OK, we just got 4 votes for stamina and one for (explosive) size, and one I couldn't tell for sure.

taoist

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Wed, 06-16-2004 - 5:42pm
Well im certainly not going by past experiences her since Ive only been with Dh and no one else. Although Dh is large (about 8 1/2-9") I would have to say that stamina is more important. After all the g-spot is only in about 2 or so inches. Dont get me wrong Dh's size is very nice but lasting a half hour is definitely nicer.
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 12:08pm
On another board the vote was 3-1 for stamina, so we're up to 8 for stamina and 2 for size.
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 2:39pm
well tao, i seem to have really lucked out with my wonderful SO in that he's beautifully well-endowed and has lots of stamina...and he's a skilled and mature lover :)!...i really am enamored with his oh soo perfect body, i can't say i've ever had a lover whos penis is soo attractive to me LOL...and he lasts soooo long if we want him to, that is a thrilling blessing as well...i would hate to give up either, for the first time in my life i find myself mesmerized by a man naked, i almost feel the desire to "worship" his crotch LOL, i feel my knees go weak just to see him come out of the bathroom in the morning...my previous lovers were all nicely built and a pleasing average endowed but here i am finding myself all goo goo over this mans beautiful penis...its just soo perfectly thick and long and has a great shape LOL that i fear i could never find one to compare to his...and as for our lovemaking, i am pleased beyond words at his ability to stall his orgasm and tap into my ability to have orgasm after orgasm.

but IF i had to make a choice i would say i'd take an average sized guy with staying power and skill over a more endowed man who cums too fast...

honey

    

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