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| Mon, 06-14-2004 - 3:06pm |
First of all high this is my first post - be kind to me...PLEASE! I have been with my good wife for some 16 years now and in the past 2 or so years i have put on a few (?) pounds. Strangley our sex life has never been better, but i want to know if you ladies find it a turn off if your man puts on a bit of weight. I ask because i think that my wife wants me to lose a few pounds (she has started serving me green stuff). Your thoughts are appreciated. Jim

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Leticia
Edited 6/14/2004 4:01 pm ET ET by yarn_lover
I think after a certain point, one's physicality has less to do with the attraction you feel for one another, than the history, personal bond and intimacy you share. At least, that's the way my DH and I look at it. We all age, our bodies change with time, but who we are INSIDE will always remain the same.
Edited 6/14/2004 6:35 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Hi Jim,
My husband was always up and down with his weight for the past 24 yrs and no, it has never been a turn-off for me.
My DH is overweight. I know it...he knows it. I love him no matter what. I just married him a month ago and he was this way when I met him over a year ago. He's aware that he needs to exercise and try to eat healthy, but it's not up to me to change him. I love him and I will accept him however he is. I just want him to be happy. If he's happy at his current weight, I'm happy. Sex is never bad...it's wonderful and he's the best thing that ever happened to me in every way.
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Jim
I love that you posted this!... first i should say that my bf is 6'5" and well i dont know what he weighs but he wears a 2XLT, hes a big big guy!... and i love him just as much for it... did you ever think that maybe shes not worried about your appearance so much as your health?... my bf lost 45lbs this year and seemed adament about it then stopped trying so i suggested that him and i walk together and that we make it a plan to eat salads at least once a week.. he too felt like i was pushing him to be skinnier... but thats not it... not saying that a tall dark and hansom guy isn't on the list but its not important....think of it this way.. your heart is the same size as that of a small person.. both height and weight... your heart has to support alot more of you the more overweight you get... since you have been your height all your life that automatically drops out so you just have the weight.... if my bf gained weight i wouldn't love him any less... but to me it is a healt issue.. this year i dropped from 195 to 165... i lost about 20lbs on my own and the rest was from getting mono... (i lost thoes 10 lbs in about 2 days) so heres how i say think of it... if you were to go on walks and eat that (perfectly edible) green stuff with your wife... you could litterally have a few more years with her in the end?....so ask yourself.. is a few more years worth it?... anyways... im a human biology major in college, so please take what i said seriously...weight is a big stress on your body... (by the way... sex mostly orgasms, can/will give you more energy... ATP so you might want to mention that after one of your fav... non-green, meals!... hehe) thats a fact... your drained of energy initially but in the end its worth it....
well im stopping now.. if i've helped or want to know more please e-mail me... traciwarnock@hotmail.com
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