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Question about first time sex
| Mon, 06-14-2004 - 5:15pm |
Hi all --
I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend this weekend. I bled a lot and he wasn't even able to go all the way in. Is this normal?? What's wrong with me? Should I see an OB? Note: I'm 30 and waited (obviously) a long time for my first time and was a bit shocked at the pain. Does it get better?? Thanks!
I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend this weekend. I bled a lot and he wasn't even able to go all the way in. Is this normal?? What's wrong with me? Should I see an OB? Note: I'm 30 and waited (obviously) a long time for my first time and was a bit shocked at the pain. Does it get better?? Thanks!
Ella

You were probably not relaxed enough and lubricated enough.
Leticia
I also want to say that I bled for a few days (about 5 days)...
It should get better. Some people have a lot of pain. A lot of people have no discomfort. Let yourself heal a little... but seeing as how he didn't get all the way in, you still might have some more breaking in to do. It DOES get better.
Good luck! Keep us posted.
Ella
Just as a sidenote (and this may be because my first boyfriend was pretty big too), but sometimes I did have a little bleeding thereafter (just would notice a little after wiping)... but I think again it was just getting used to the sex and all.
I'm glad I was able to help
Hi,
You know there are a couple of excellent web sites for women and their body and sexuality and sex.
Sharon
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