Did I go to far on vacation
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Did I go to far on vacation
| Tue, 06-15-2004 - 2:45pm |
I recently went on vacation to the carribean with the guy I have been dating for almost 6 months. We have always used condoms however our first night away the condom broke and we continued to have sex the rest of the week with out one. On that trip I did some sexual activities that I typically wouldnt ever do (with him only). Now he wants nothing to do with me. What went wrong. Now I'm worried about STD's and HIV!

If he wants nothing to do with you now, has he told you why? Has he said anything to you? If not, he is a prick, and you deserve better, so don't worry about it.
Secondly, if you freaked him out in the bedroom when you were down there and he is not man enough to handle it, let him go. You need to be completely comfortable with the intimacy of the person you are with. If he cannot take it, leave him in the dust and find someone who can! Possibly someone who can teach you a thing or two as well! Makes it a lot more interesting when both parties can bring something new into the bedroom. Just my two cents...
My doc says the first night you should go without a condom is your wedding night. Seems silly, but probably a good idea.
Sorry this happened to you.
sara
Whatever you two did, weird, freaky, or whatever, HE did the same things....so if that's the reason.....that's the pot calling the kettle black, for sure!
As with any other relationship....if it's over, it's over, and there's nothing you can do but accept it. Move on and forget about it. Chalk it up to experience.