could use some tips or hints...

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Registered: 06-06-2004
could use some tips or hints...
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Wed, 06-16-2004 - 11:32am
I am going to visit my boyfriend on Friday and we haven't seen each other for almost a month, and I was wondering if anyone had any tips on things i could do to aid us in having sex more than like twice in one night. He doesn't usually take that long before he is ready to go...but it is like a good half an hour or 40 minutes....if any one has any suggestions i would be very thankful!!

Jenn

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 11:40am
Don't stop. Just cause his member isn't erect, does not mean he is not feeling great pleasure. Nor do you. When he is soft, he still has other units he can be using. Fingers, tongue, etc. Also, something I found that works great is to get a quick BJ first off, and then while I recover the first time, I return the favor, and get her off quickly. Then it is open season, free for all, get what you want, and keep going. When it happens like that, both get the best of both worlds. I also love it when my SO doesn't stop oral activity just because I have gone soft. She can cause some incredible sensations while I am soft. Especially when she takes it all in her mouth and rolls it around. It decreases my recovery time thats for sure.
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Registered: 06-06-2004
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 11:51am
I tried that but my SO told me to "give him a couple minutes"......ugh...sometimes he is so frusterating yet I love him so much...


Jenn

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 3:41pm
Then give him a few minutes, but stay close to him, and continue to caress yourself. masterbate in front of him, or continue to stroke yourself. Let him see visual signs of your continued arousal, and he will get the hint. Trust me, I certainly would. I have even asked my SO to masterbate for me, so I can see how she does it for herself. LOL But, to make a long story short, his breaks are for recovery, and if you can get him to see that you are still wanting more, then maybe he will ablige you, and continue to get you off.
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Mon, 06-21-2004 - 1:41pm
Back from a great weekend, and I think that just being away from each other for almost a month made everything that much better...needless to say, we had no problems at all and I didn't think it was possible for us to make love that many times(10) in the span of about 48 hours....I had a great weekend and I already miss him! Long distance relationships just plain suck!


xox

Jenn