Am i easy?
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Am i easy?
| Wed, 06-16-2004 - 12:01pm |
All my best friends considering im easy now, even the one who has slept with more than 10 guys!
im 22 yo, and have slept with 3 guys since i was 18 yo,and it has been more than a year since i last had sex!!!!!!!!!!
The reason why they think im easy is i had sex with 2 of them too fast, it's within 3 dates. And i recently had a vacation and hookup with a guy, we made out quite heavily on the first night but we didnt have sex.. and i told them about my hookup, and they said im too easy...
WTF!!!!! so am i too easy ???

Leticia
When others judge us, it's usually because they are not comfortable with their own decisions. No one can tell another how long they should wait; It's entirely up to you. If sex feels right to you, and you are doing it safely go for it. If YOU feel "easy" (odd word that), after your previous encounter, keep that in mind and the next time a situation comes up like this, wait before having sex or making out.
If others judge you, it's usually best to not tell them your experiences...keep it to yourself, or share it with someone that is less likely to be judgmental.
Peace.
Scott.
If YOU don't feel bad about anything you've done in the past, then keep your sexual exploits to yourself in the future. Maybe they're only concerned for your safety though. I mean they ARE your friends, right?
IF you share everything with people, and expect them to listen, then you may be inviting opinions you aren't ready to to hear. BUT good friends will tell you the truth as they see it. It's up to you to weigh what they say against what you feel about things.
You friends are probably just looking out for you, warning you to be careful and think about what you are doing. So, think about what you are doing. If you feel good about it, and aren't putting yourself into unsafe situations, who cares what your friends think.
Maybe your friends feel like they've seen a major change in you lately. COuldn't tell from your post, but maybe you had only had sex with one guy. Then within 2 months had sex with 2 guys you didn't know very well and had a make out session with a stranger.
best of luck
Sara
i dont really care what others think, but they are my best frds since high school. We share almost everything of life for 8 years since we were 13 or 14. I just couldnt figure out why they consider me being easy now.. =(
I am choosy actually, that's why i have been single for more than a year and without sex. But if i like someone and that someone wants to make out or sex, i couldnt say NO. they have been telling me i should not have sex too soon since i broke up with my ex, the "relation" lasted for a month only and we slept on 2nd date. i did take their advice and didnt have sex on my recent vacation with a really cute guy, however, we made out, and they think it's not acceptable.....
they are lucky they all find someone special and having a long term relationship, but i have not and now go without sex for more than a year. i know they care about me, but the way they talk like im a slut really hurts.......
i like sex and no shame to admit it , but I guess i really have to keep it to myself now..