FREAKIN SMALL MAN!

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FREAKIN SMALL MAN!
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Wed, 06-16-2004 - 8:06pm
MET THIS GUY FOR TWO WEEKS. EVERYTHING WENT FINE. I FINALLY DECIDE TO DO IT WITH HIM. FOUND OUT THAT I FELT NOTHING AT ALL. I KNOW PEOPLE TELL ME SIZE DOESNT MATTER BUT HOW CAN YOU EVEN ENJOY SEX IF YOU CANT FEEL ANY PENETRATION WHATSOEVER. BASICALLY I ONLY DID IT WITH HIM ONE TIME THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I WAS SO TURNED OFF. DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER. I KNOW IF I END UP DATING THIS GUY, I WOULDNT WANT SEX FROM HIM. THINKING ABOUT IT NOW, MAKES ME NOT WANT TO EVEN TALK TO HIM AGAIN.


Edited 6/16/2004 8:08 pm ET ET by connie2111

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Avatar for luvmylittleones
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 8:14pm
Sounds like your not happy with that man, I would move on...I mean two weeks isn't that big of a committment.
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Wed, 06-16-2004 - 8:15pm
Well, if
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 8:17pm

My suggestion is, dump him now!!


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Wed, 06-16-2004 - 8:21pm
Sounds harsh, but I have to totally agree with you. Long ago, I dated a man with a very small penis. It was then I REALLY KNEW the answer to the question: "Does size matter" - uh, yeah, it does! I want and need to "feel" a man inside me. I want something to wrap my hands around too! Whooooo!!!!

Similar to men liking big breasted or small breasted women, etc. Size matters! Yep!

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 10:41pm
"Similar to men liking big breasted or small breasted women, etc. Size matters! Yep!"

I wish you could explain this to me.

When actually making love , does breast size really matter? As the French say,""Anything larger than a champagne glass is wasted".

I also might add that this guy may have a "FREAKIN SMALL" penis, but he still has a tongue and fingers and I believe you were singing the praises of talents in those departments on another thread.

taoist


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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 11:34pm
If you base your opinion of men by the size of their penis, then he's not for you....by all means, do him a favor and move on.

There are plenty of women looking for a decent man, and if he doesn't know how to please a woman by other means than intercourse, someone will be very happy to teach him.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 12:25am
Hey Tiana,

>>Similar to men liking big breasted or small breasted women, etc. Size matters! Yep!<<


You know, take it from a guy who doesn't fall into societies attitudes for larger women's breast size. (yes I know you only wanted to make a comparison) I just thought you'd like to know that I prefer small breasted women, it's just so much more sophisticated looking to me, and while bigger breasts look great artfully dressed, and being sexy, get out of the clothes, get older some too (30's), and you can have all the myth about big breats. It's just not for me.

Now then, about small penis', if I were a woman I wouldn't want that either. Yes, we should all be understanding and supportive, and all that stuff, but I've heard women marvel at the male organ in just it's function ... wouldn't be the same if you didn't have much function now would it, LOL

Still, I feel for the guy, be sweet ...

Michael

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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 1:39am
it isn't always about size but if you can't feel him in you then whats the point? lol sure he has fingers and a tounge but who wants to be stuck with a potential long term thing without acutally having sex? I know it isn't always about sex, but it is important...my suggestion is tell him that you like him as a person and you would rather be friends.....then buy him a penis pump!!! hahaha sorry couldn't resist!!!
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 1:47am
This post makes me sad. Have we really become so shallow in our society that we're picking prospective partners for their body parts now?

I think you should look at ALL the possible reasons why you didn't feel anything, and there ARE more than just his penis size. He can do nothing about that.

I imagine he's wondering why he didn't feel anything either! Think of it THAT way before you decide to throw him aside so quickly.




Edited 6/17/2004 2:02 am ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 1:50am
You know that he's probably thinking her vagina is too BIG!

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