Women: 1st intercourse vs. 1st orgasm
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Women: 1st intercourse vs. 1st orgasm
| Sat, 09-04-2004 - 8:08am |
I have often heard that many women have a difficult time learning to orgasm. What was the age of your first intercourse, compared to the age of your first orgasm during intercourse (including foreplay, not necessarily during penetration)?

I could orgasm through masterbation from about the age of 12. Lost my virginity at 17. 14 sexual partners and 9 years later, I orgasm with my husband every time.
With me I think it was a trust issue...I was always (well, maybe) honest about it and many men took it as a challenge! That made things pretty interesting. Sex can feel good even if you don't orgasm, if it didn't, I wouldn't have kept doing it!
i first had sex at the age of 16- which was HORRIBLE- overcoming really terrible first time in addition to really terrible couple of boyfriends, i totally didn't enjoy sex nor did i understand what everyone was always in a tizzy over about sex...
but i met a sweet sweet guy when i was 18- and we developed a really healthy fun sex life....my first IC orgasm was with him...
however as i've said on other posts...i almost never orgasm from IC-even now- masturbation though...EVERY time!!