Women: 1st intercourse vs. 1st orgasm

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Women: 1st intercourse vs. 1st orgasm
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Sat, 09-04-2004 - 8:08am
I have often heard that many women have a difficult time learning to orgasm. What was the age of your first intercourse, compared to the age of your first orgasm during intercourse (including foreplay, not necessarily during penetration)?
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sat, 09-04-2004 - 8:20am
I didn't have a hard time learning to orgasm, I had a hard time learning to do it with a partner! My first intercourse was at age 14, my first orgasm was several years before that, but my first one during sex was around age 20, after I was married.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sat, 09-04-2004 - 9:14am
Twenty five years. I've made up for it since.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 09-04-2004 - 3:12pm
I knew how to orgasm through masturbation

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Registered: 05-21-2004
Sat, 09-04-2004 - 3:37pm
Interesting question...

I could orgasm through masterbation from about the age of 12. Lost my virginity at 17. 14 sexual partners and 9 years later, I orgasm with my husband every time.

With me I think it was a trust issue...I was always (well, maybe) honest about it and many men took it as a challenge! That made things pretty interesting. Sex can feel good even if you don't orgasm, if it didn't, I wouldn't have kept doing it!

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Tue, 09-07-2004 - 8:12am
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Registered: 05-21-2004
Tue, 09-07-2004 - 4:31pm
i could certainly orgasm from masturbation (though i'm not sure i actually i knew that's what i was doing at the time) from about the age of 10?

i first had sex at the age of 16- which was HORRIBLE- overcoming really terrible first time in addition to really terrible couple of boyfriends, i totally didn't enjoy sex nor did i understand what everyone was always in a tizzy over about sex...

but i met a sweet sweet guy when i was 18- and we developed a really healthy fun sex life....my first IC orgasm was with him...

however as i've said on other posts...i almost never orgasm from IC-even now- masturbation though...EVERY time!!

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Tue, 09-07-2004 - 5:08pm
18 the first time I had sex and 22 for the first orgasm.