Is this okay??

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Registered: 08-21-2004
Is this okay??
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Mon, 09-06-2004 - 7:22pm
Hi everyone!! I just have a quick question for you all - really just looking for some opinions/reassurance.

I've been in an exclusive relationship with my boyfriend for 5 months now. We have yet to consummate the relationship and I was wondering if anyone thought this was abnormal. We have oral relations all the time we have just not "gone all the way." We are very happy with how things are and I'm not complaining at all I was just wondering if this situation is okay. Please respond.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2004
Mon, 09-06-2004 - 7:50pm
Is it okay with you is the question, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If you two are happy with the activities you are experincing there should be no ?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 09-06-2004 - 8:10pm
That is up to the two of you.

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Mon, 09-06-2004 - 9:14pm
everyones different, and if ure both happy in ure relationship and wut ure doing there's absolutely nothing wrong w/ it, no matter wut neone says! heck, my ex and i were together for 5yrs and never had sex, so honestly 5months is nothing ;-) just take ure time and enjoy wut u do, wen the time's right, you'll know!

<3cari

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Tue, 09-07-2004 - 12:25am
There are NO timetables or schedules for relationships. If you two are happy this way, then it's okay for YOU. It doesn't matter what other people do, or other people think.