Help please,my fiancee is a virgin

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Registered: 09-13-2004
Help please,my fiancee is a virgin
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Mon, 09-13-2004 - 8:57pm
I am a 21 year old female,my fiancee is a 23 year old male.We will be getting married in the spring and he was raised extremely religious and so he is still a virgin,he's never even taken sex ed and so has no idea what sex even consists of.How do I go about teaching him what it is and eventually doing it with him?I'm worried I'll screw something up and ruin the experience for him or both of us.I'm not a virgin myself and haven't been for some time now,I've never been with a guy who was virgin though so I really have no idea what to expect.Any advice at all would be welcome.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 09-13-2004 - 9:28pm

Well first of all, everyone was a virgin at one time so there isn't anything to get worried about.


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Registered: 07-22-2004
Mon, 09-13-2004 - 11:23pm
Could not possibly agree more with what Tish already said.

Just remember, is not "an accomplishment" at all. Keep him mindful that it is not something to be achieved nor failed. For me and my own wife, it is STILL an enjoyable process. Although we already know almost everything about each other physically/sexually, we still enjoy learning new things with each other together.

Congrats on the marriage and hope ya have fun growing through the new relationship together!

:)

:)

C h a r a c t e r


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