condoms

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Registered: 06-29-2003
condoms
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Wed, 09-15-2004 - 4:31am
recently me and my boyfriend started using condoms, now before that we werent using anything but a close friend of mine had a pregnancy scare and when i told him it kinda freaked him out and so he decided he wanted to use condoms.

however i hate the things. i think they smell and they just really take away from the moment of being so horny. for me anyways!

he feels safe using them though. i used to take the pill (with my ex) but i was irregular with it.. (wont change i dont think LOL)

my bf is so hooked on this condom thing though that i need to learn how to not let it ruin my moment of wanting sex.

i dont know what it is, but as soon as he grabs for that condom my desire to have sex is COMPLETELY gone.

why is this? and how do i change it? if you can..!?

thnx!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-29-2003
In reply to: ariannabelle
Wed, 09-15-2004 - 4:38am
ONE OTHER THING..

why is it he is SO scared to have sex with nothing all of a sudden? it has to be something besides that..right? i mean she wasnt pregnant after all and he knows that, but on the other hand, what else could it possibly be?

he even turned down sex because we had no condoms but before he really didnt care too much at all. (or else he wouldnt have obviously)

should i be worried about the sudden change? we didnt use anything for 5 mnths by the way.

thnx! :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
In reply to: ariannabelle
Wed, 09-15-2004 - 6:12am
So, wait a minute: you *used* to take the pill, but you don't anymore? Your boyfriend only recently started using condoms because of your girlfriend's scare?

What were you relying on to keep you from getting pregnant? Your horoscope? Pure dumb luck?

I'm sorry if I am mis-reading you but the fact is that people who are not mature enough to use birth control wisely are not mature enough to be having sex. At the rate you are going, it is just a matter of time before you and your boyfriend bring a baby or an aborted fetus into this world and that is a mistake you will live with for the rest of your life.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: ariannabelle
Wed, 09-15-2004 - 9:35am

Why is he so worried?


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