What's happened recently...

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Registered: 09-25-2003
What's happened recently...
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Sun, 09-19-2004 - 3:11am
Ok, my bf and I have been having sex since May. About a month ago, however, I had a night where I started (TMI) queefing, (I can't believe I'm typing this!) and it just wouldn't stop. Thank goodness my bf and I laughed it off, no problems. Well, it's happened a few other times since then, and not that it's ALL THAT BAD, but it is somewhat annoying where we're in the mood and then the mood killer strikes!

Do you know of any ways to prevent this, or stop it? We aren't even in positions that would warrant it happening, just girl-on-top or missionary, when this happens. It doesn't make sense! Any help would be awesome. I'm glad he can laugh it off, but I'd really like it to stop!

-Lauren

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Registered: 07-11-2004
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 5:51pm
it happens to me too... we laugh it off too, it kidna embarrassing tho. but i have NO idea how to stop it. wish i knew. sorry
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Registered: 09-08-2004
Mon, 09-20-2004 - 9:07pm
Agreed, it is the most disgusting thing, especially when he's just cum inside me. It's really one of the least pleasant sounds in the world and it is sooooooooo embarrassing and at least to me it sounds loud enough to hear a mile away. I am sure my bf, who likes femininity all the way, thinks they are awful. I don't remember doing these very often in the past. Yuck!!!
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Tue, 09-21-2004 - 12:04am
Most of what I've read from guys on other message boards, they recognize that its just part of what the body does and that they prefer not to make a big deal of it. Worrying about it just ruins the mood most of the time. Many guys will think different, but this is what I remember reading the several times this topic came up. :)

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Wed, 09-22-2004 - 2:28pm
LOL, I don't think it's disgusting at all, it's just one of those things. We've learned to accept our bodies, with all their faults and foibles and we just laugh it off.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 09-22-2004 - 3:08pm
It has only ever happened to me during doggie style...i do know how to prevent it now tho, it's just hard to explain!!! I have been seeing a guy for 3 months now and it happened once during sex, didnt ruin the mood or anything tho
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Registered: 12-24-2003
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 12:03am
>>...i do know how to prevent it now tho, it's just hard to explain!!! <<

Do try, please. My wife gets this always from doggie. It's ok until too much air gets in and it hurts a bit, then she has to stop and let the air out. No big deal really, just curious if we can do something differently.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 8:11am
Well, it also depends on the size of the guy and the woman's tightness because with my ex, I got it more often than with the guy I am with now. My ex wasn't quite as well endowed as my current man is, who is very large. Before and as he is entering, I contract the muscles in there (as in when doing the exercises to tighten the muscles)that way, any excess air can come out...just have to be careful if he pulls out even slightly and goes back in, the air will go in as well...this is when it happened to me with my current man, he pulled out and went in straight away and a lot of air went in...i hope this helps a little bit, it has worked for me....
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Registered: 12-30-2002
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 12:25pm
Hhehe This happens to me aswell with my BF. But now that we have been dating for a while and are comfortable with each other, we laugh it off. But in the beginning, it can def be embarassing. I always notice that it happens when he pulls out too much, then back in- he's allowing air to be trapped inside my vagina, then when he goes back inside-hes pushing the air up and it was no where to escape, so thus creating pockets of air to exit my vagina and then BAM that terrrrible noise! I would suggest that you notice next time if your having sex- how far is he thrusting or how far is he exiting.. then you can tell if there is enough room for air to enter in. Now i can tell when its gonna happen, just by observing how he is thrusting hehe....
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Registered: 12-24-2003
Sat, 09-25-2004 - 9:59am
Thanks for the tip, no pun intended. Yes, if I accidentally pull out, a lot of air comes in and gets uncomfortable for her when I re-enter.

I'll forward your post to her.

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Registered: 09-21-2004
Sat, 09-25-2004 - 8:48pm
When this happens, dh and I just laugh it off. He says my kitty is telling him how good the sex was. lol

I don't know how to prevent it but I just wanted to let you know that its probaly more common than a lot of people think, its just something we don't talk about.