Question for the ladies :)

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Question for the ladies :)
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Sun, 09-19-2004 - 11:00am
OK, this sounds a little ridiculous but I don't care. My buddies and I have a longstanding argument about whether or not something is true so here's the question:

Does the feeling of a man's balls slapping against you (or if going slow, just feeling them when he thrusts) increase your pleasure during intercouse? If so, why? If not, why? Or, do you not even notice?

This should settle it up. Thanks in advance for answering! -- jacknew

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Sun, 09-19-2004 - 11:18am

You'll get different answers from different women since we all like different things and we all get turned on or turned off by different things.


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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 12:42pm
i notice it and don't particularly like it. i like them tight, so they wouldn't be slapping much. depending on the guy, it would either turn me off or i would be indifferent. ultimately, it's a minor thing and i don't really care.
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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 9:17pm
I like it but -he- doesn't ... bf's balls are very very dangly at first and he says it really hurts if they slap into me too hard. He absolutely, absolutely wants me to reach around and cup them firmly in my hand so they don't slap ... in fact most of the time when he's penetrating me I am holding them. Dangly looks really sexy to me ... still, I know he does not like this feature of himself. As he gets more and more aroused, they seem to pull way up until just before he cums they are basically just one tight "ball" -- round and a little smaller than a baseball.
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Tue, 09-21-2004 - 10:40am
Seeing a man's bag hanging down is very sexy. Especially when the balls are obviously full and each is visible through the skin. Watching my man walk around the house naked with his balls swinging and hitting his legs is rather 'intruiging'. As far as intercourse, it is a total turnon feeling his bag slapping against me in places. Kind of reminds me of a bull I saw which had testicles hanging the size of cantaloupes. Knowing what is inside them and slapping against me will soon be inside me is very erotic. My man says he enjoys the sensation of being male with his balls hitting me. When his balls pull up and he prepares to ejaculate, he loves it when I reach to cup and massage his bag to help him empty his balls into me.

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Tue, 09-21-2004 - 3:48pm
OK you make me wonder about this again. Isn't, as you say, the guy's cum stored in his balls until he shoots it out? I always thought it was, then some very rude poster was like, "you nitwit, it doesn't get stored in his balls at all; get a clue!" I can feel when his are really full and heavy, and I know he likes them squeezed gently as he is ejaculating. Certainly he describes the sensation of orgasming as one of emptying his balls. Is the prostate part of that assembly, or just what the heck is going on there? You'd think I'd know, but I don't. So I'm askin' ;-)
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Tue, 09-21-2004 - 5:15pm

The testicles produce and store the sperm cells. They also produce hormones, including testosterone.


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Wed, 09-22-2004 - 9:16am
I'll give it a shot, although it has been awhile since I learned about it. Actual sperm cells make up only a very small proportion of the semen that is ejaculated. During orgasm and right before ejaculation, sperm do come from the testicles but along the way they are mixed with fluid from the prostate gland and Cowper's gland which composes most of the volume. When I ejaculate I am most aware of my penis first and prostate second with testicles a distant third. I think you BF's perception of semen coming from his testicles is probably rooted in his conception of the event and is more an imaginative symolic sort of experience. I have heard lots of times about guys that like their testicles stimulated during ejaculation but I have yet to experience that myself.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 09-22-2004 - 3:23pm
I do notice it, but I dont pay much attention to it...My bf's balls are tight, which is nice, i dont like anything sagging :-)
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Wed, 09-22-2004 - 6:59pm

For me personally it does. I can't explain why, it just does. Usually when we get to that point where they will start doing that we're going at it pretty hard, which is a major turn on for me regardless.


Hope that helps.


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Registered: 09-23-2004
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 1:31pm
Definitely increases pleasure. As for why I guess the best answer I could give is that it feels good.

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