Am i taking this the wrong way?
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Am i taking this the wrong way?
| Thu, 09-23-2004 - 8:14am |
I don't even know if I'm offended by this, but the other day after I gave my new bf a blow job for the first time (and swallowed) he said "Thanks" and told me I was cool... Is it just me or is gratefulness not realy what you want after that?
Then when he left, I thanked him for coming over and making me lunch, and he thanked me for "being beautiful" and "being so cool".
It's not like these are bad attributes, but it made me feel kind of.. I don't know.
Help me out here!?
Then when he left, I thanked him for coming over and making me lunch, and he thanked me for "being beautiful" and "being so cool".
It's not like these are bad attributes, but it made me feel kind of.. I don't know.
Help me out here!?

Don't make an drama out of this. He was just grateful and wanted to express it. Interpret it as: "I think you're special, you make me feel special...I love who you are."
Tish (as always) gives great advice on your response if it still makes you feel uncomfortable.
Peace.
Scott.
I've always enjoyed a bj but I dated a woman for a while that would do it and then right afterward pat me on the butt and say, "Well, you better go now." Boy did I feel rather cheap. I mean, I could tell then that there were no feeling there, she was just trying to get me off.