Women, are the most beautiful, sensuos, and sexiest creatures on the planet. Therefor, eny man in his right mind would appreciate one, two, or more af the greatest thing in the world.
As far as the women wanting to be with a woman , or in a thresome with one...
I just can't blame them. Women are fantastic to look at and touch and taste, so why wouldn't another woman want that too?
some of my friends don't agree, but that has been my thoughts since I started puberty. LOL
I think the 2 women fantasy is pretty much the number 1 and universal fantasy for most men. I'm not sure why but the more the merrier I guess. To go a step fuether I think 3 women and me would be even better and 4 would be best! Just imagine 2 or more women orally pleasing me or penetrating one while watching the oral receive oral would be amazing! Or my other fantasy Having both of them on all fours and then just going from one to the other, 10 pumps for this one 10 pumps for that on, WOW! Although I'm not sure I coud last for that many pumps! LOL
However, it is just a fantasy for me and would never act on it while in a serious relationship. It would definitely screw things up If I was unattached say during college or something I would have jumped all over an opportunity to be with 2 girls!
Also, look at one of the polls I asked if it is a big fantasy for women to be with 2 men, it looks as though it is!
Why are men turned on by woman on woman activity? Well, men are typically aroused by the sight of naked female flesh so why wouldn't they enjoy seeing 2 women naked...whether it's 2 women having sex or doing the laundry? LOL!
Why do many men request a threesome? For several reasons, I'm sure, but once again, I think many men want to add the voyeuristic element of the unknown to their experience and many men want to the center of sexual attention.
Why do so many wives and GF'S comply with this request? I'm not sure that " a lot" actually DO comply but I think some may want to experience it for themselves and some seem to think that it's their duty to make all their partner's fantasies come true, regardless of their own feelings.
But I don't think many couples DO think things through completely to consider the possible consequences. Sometimes, it's an unfortunate surprise.
I asked my BF last night about this topic... I asked him is it your fantasy to have you, me and another girl, or you watch me with another girl? He told me honestly that he would not like to have me be with another female. His reason was that he would be "worried" that i would enjoy the pleasure from the female than him. I would want more of it after it was finished, and he would lose me. hehe i kinda agree..hahah. But he also said that no matter what, he is committed to me, and i am to him, so if its male or female he considers it to still be a violation of our trust and committment to one another. Plus he sees me as the future mother of his children, and his future wife, and he could never accept the future mother of his kids to do something like that. Now he said that if he had two random girls who he really didnt care for emotionally and the opportunity came up (if he was single) he said he probably would. Funny.. lol.
Sooo.. i guess for my man its not too much of a fantasy that he would want it to happen, but he doesnt totally turn his head away from it. I guess just the idea of me being the one of the females is too much for him, the natural instict of jealousy would kick in, especially if im enjoying her touch more than his.
I think that women are just into women (I know there are exceptions) but I have a poll open on this board and have seen a number of others that indicate that approximately 80% of women are lesbian, bi-sexual, or bi-curious. I feel certain that the men on men interest is no where that number. Why that is, I think that women are the most sexual of the species and that fact is reflected in every thing that we see. They are most prominately featured in all media, dominate in the sex industry, and most often, when they indicate a interest, draw men to them like flies to honey. Women just radiate SEX.
Sorry, Txguy, but this woman has never, am not, and will never be interested in a woman sexually. With one exception(one of my close friends who is gay), none of the other women I have known in the past, and know now have ever had the urge to be with a woman. They all feel the same way as I do, women simply don't turn us on. I don't know how those numbers reflect such a high percentage--it's seems unlikely....wishful thinking perhaps. Of the few friends that had engaged in a threesome, they all had the same outcome....hated it, and only did it for the guy, not because it was a desire of theirs.
-Why do you think that most studies indicate that there are about twice as many gay men as lesbians? I think your poll results can be easily explained by three things: 1) There is a lot more prejudice against gay men, 2) It is currently in fashion for women to show same sex interests, and 3) since this is a woman's health and info site, there aren't likely to be a lot of gay guys surfing around here.
I think polls confuse fantasy with reality though.
Yes, SOME women may be curious and SOME women may fantasize about being with another woman but would never act on it....much the same way some men probably do about same sex liasons.
I have never had so much as a sexual dream about another woman though. And while women are beautiful and sensuous, they simply do not appeal to me sexually.
"he also said that no matter what, he is committed to me, and i am to him, so if its male or female he considers it to still be a violation of our trust and committment to one another. Plus he sees me as the future mother of his children, and his future wife,"
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I'm a male and here's my belief on this one:
Women, are the most beautiful, sensuos, and sexiest creatures on the planet. Therefor, eny man in his right mind would appreciate one, two, or more af the greatest thing in the world.
As far as the women wanting to be with a woman , or in a thresome with one...
I just can't blame them. Women are fantastic to look at and touch and taste, so why wouldn't another woman want that too?
some of my friends don't agree, but that has been my thoughts since I started puberty. LOL
30+ yrs. ago
However, it is just a fantasy for me and would never act on it while in a serious relationship. It would definitely screw things up If I was unattached say during college or something I would have jumped all over an opportunity to be with 2 girls!
Also, look at one of the polls I asked if it is a big fantasy for women to be with 2 men, it looks as though it is!
Why are men turned on by woman on woman activity? Well, men are typically aroused by the sight of naked female flesh so why wouldn't they enjoy seeing 2 women naked...whether it's 2 women having sex or doing the laundry? LOL!
Why do many men request a threesome? For several reasons, I'm sure, but once again, I think many men want to add the voyeuristic element of the unknown to their experience and many men want to the center of sexual attention.
Why do so many wives and GF'S comply with this request? I'm not sure that " a lot" actually DO comply but I think some may want to experience it for themselves and some seem to think that it's their duty to make all their partner's fantasies come true, regardless of their own feelings.
But I don't think many couples DO think things through completely to consider the possible consequences. Sometimes, it's an unfortunate surprise.
Sooo.. i guess for my man its not too much of a fantasy that he would want it to happen, but he doesnt totally turn his head away from it. I guess just the idea of me being the one of the females is too much for him, the natural instict of jealousy would kick in, especially if im enjoying her touch more than his.
Just my two cents here, since I'm not a guy, I have no clue but this is why I would *think*.
-Why do you think that most studies indicate that there are about twice as many gay men as lesbians? I think your poll results can be easily explained by three things: 1) There is a lot more prejudice against gay men, 2) It is currently in fashion for women to show same sex interests, and 3) since this is a woman's health and info site, there aren't likely to be a lot of gay guys surfing around here.
Yes, SOME women may be curious and SOME women may fantasize about being with another woman but would never act on it....much the same way some men probably do about same sex liasons.
I have never had so much as a sexual dream about another woman though. And while women are beautiful and sensuous, they simply do not appeal to me sexually.
AWWW, he sure sounds like a "keeper" to me!
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