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| Fri, 10-01-2004 - 3:30pm |
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I am 31 years old and am not sure if what i am feeling is an orgasm or not ...
I have masturbated with the best of them, have a TON of toys and will hit that little spot and go " ew that was it, done now thank you " when I am alone. But when my S/O does it I get this strange build up and get soo frustrated ( NOT with him but with myself and my body ) b/c I have NO idea what that little build up is, I feel like it is this "load" that wants to come out of my clit. He is wonderful and sweet and keeps on going til I get a little twitch ... is that my orgasm ? He has told me that maybe my orgasm is actually from intercourse. I really like that and sream and yip and yell and hollar while all that is going on. ( no one he has ever been with liked that part )
About a year ago I had a one night stand with a guy and I actually ejaculated with him several times. The bed was soaked when I was done and I have never done that since and I want to be able to do that again ...
I am 31 years old and am not sure if what i am feeling is an orgasm or not ...
I have masturbated with the best of them, have a TON of toys and will hit that little spot and go " ew that was it, done now thank you " when I am alone. But when my S/O does it I get this strange build up and get soo frustrated ( NOT with him but with myself and my body ) b/c I have NO idea what that little build up is, I feel like it is this "load" that wants to come out of my clit. He is wonderful and sweet and keeps on going til I get a little twitch ... is that my orgasm ? He has told me that maybe my orgasm is actually from intercourse. I really like that and sream and yip and yell and hollar while all that is going on. ( no one he has ever been with liked that part )
About a year ago I had a one night stand with a guy and I actually ejaculated with him several times. The bed was soaked when I was done and I have never done that since and I want to be able to do that again ...
thanks for any help / advice / suggestions you have
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to orgasm? Don't make them your goal. Sex should just be about exploration, enjoyment, and relaxation. Let your mind go, don't hold back. When you care deeply about someone, their touch is magnified because you know that there's feelings behind them. When I touch my SO, I want him to feel my love as well as the actual stimuli. Clear your mind, and "FEEL" his touch. The mind controls the body, allow them to connect.