8 Inch D*ck

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Registered: 02-14-2004
8 Inch D*ck
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:31am
My man says he is 8"... but how do "I" know if he is telling the truth? He said that he measured it. He is 25 years old and said that it hasn't finished growing... what does he mean "it hasn't finished growing?" How is this possible? He is 25! I thought you stop growing at 18! And oh yeah, another thing-- I wish he was a little bigger-- or maybe it's just that I'm (my vagina) too big!

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:46am
What difference does it make what size he has? That's what size he has, and at 25 it IS finished growing. Young men might grow a little after 18, but not when he's 25! It's wishful thinking on his part. An 8" penis is larger than average. But, there's a lot more to sex than a big penis. That's not the only tool he has to pleasure a woman, anyway. Big penis doesn't always mean good lover. Foreplay is just as important to a woman......and most women don't have orgasms from intercourse alone.

Whether it's 4", 8" or 12" inches....just hope he knows how to give you pleasure.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 8:22am

If you really want to know, whip out a tape measure and measure him, but what difference does it make what size penis he has?


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Registered: 02-14-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 10:57am
Ok, so maybe you're right-- size shouldn't matter-- in my case, it does. But the whole problem is that I don't get any satisfaction out of it. Why? B/c I have never had an orgasm... maybe it's b/c I am on the Pill & take medications (Effexor & Strattera). Plus, I'm dry as sand paper... I can NEVER get wet. NEVER. In a matter of fact, he doesn't even give me time to get aroused... he just stick it in... and yeah, "sometimes" it hurts. If I go down on him, I expect to return the favor, but he doesn't. He never gives me oral sex. I hate that about him. What can I do?
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Registered: 07-30-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:26am
It kind of sounds like neither of you know what you're doing. Why would you want a larger penis, if you are dry and intercourse is already painfull? Probably one of your major problems is a lack of foreplay. Most women don't orgasm from intercourse, only about 20% actually do. You need to educate him about your needs otherwise nothing will change. If he doesn't give you oral on his own, why don't you just ask for it? Obviously you can't expect this guy to figure much out for himself.

His penis won't keep growing. 8 inches is already larger than the vast majority of penises. The only way to tell if it is really that big is to measure it. There is a joke which starts off "Why why are women so bad at judging length or distance?" Then you hold your fingers about 5 inches apart and say "Because men are always telling them that this is 8 inches."

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:39am
<<<"Why why are women so bad at judging length or distance?" Then you hold your fingers about 5 inches apart and say "Because men are always telling them that this is 8 inches." >>>

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:50am
Well, you just revealed two MAIN obstacles to arousal and orgasm...resentment and anger. IF your guy is selfish in bed, then you must speak up. IF he refuses to give you time to become aroused, then take charge of your own experience and only allow penetration when you're ready. He can either wait until you've stimulated yourself sufficiently or he can fully participate, as he should. This issue needs to be resolved or you won't enjoy pleasurable sex.

Once again though, you REALLY need to speak to your dr. about finding better alternatives to your meds. and then, discuss these other problems, calmly and rationally, with your partner.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 12:16pm

No matter how big he is or what he does, if you are not aroused, you will not have an orgasm.


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Registered: 08-26-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 12:28pm

Are you trying to settle a bar bet? I'm guessing he's feeling pressure 'cause you're telling him he can't fill you fill you up.


Here's the short and skinny. Keegle exercises for you, and NOTHING is gonna make him bigger. Harder maybe with exercise and good diet, but not bigger.


 

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Registered: 08-26-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 12:32pm
Now that I read the other posts, I'd agree with them. It sounds more like an unattentive lover, and poor communication between the two of you.

 

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Registered: 02-14-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 1:59pm
My man is indeed selfish. He'll make sure he gets his before I get mine... j/k. I've never had an orgasm! I've asked him to go down on me, but he won't-- he's done it maybe three or four times out of the 2 years (well, almost 2) that we've been together. He doesn't even last that long. I think the longest he's gone was 20 minutes. I hate my sex life. He knows how I feel about it. I've all ready expressed it to him. He only cares about getting himself off... sad, but indeed true. He always wants "me" to be on top. Hell, I suck at riding... well, actually, he doesn't like grinding- he prefers me bouncing up and down. I hate being on top! I'm like, "Why won't you get on top?" And he's like, "Because I'm tired." See what I mean? I do tell him what I want- he tells me what "he" wants. For example, he'll ask me to talk dirty during sex... I hesitate at first, but I give in. If I want him to "pump" faster or harder, I tell him... and he does. But why can't he go down on me? He told me once that I "smell" down there, which is also true. I do get bacterial vaginosis all the time, which causes a fishy-like odor (it's not pleasant, trust me). Let's see here... I stay dry. I can't have an orgasm. My mind wanders off, all the time to "La-La Land" (I have ADD, so it's really hard for me to stay focused & concentrate), I fake my moans sometimes, etc. I hate it when he lays there with his head back & has his eyes closed. I want him to have his eyes opened, looking at me! I feel as if he's not into it or that he's fantasizing about some chic/ porn star which he does on occasion.

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