my boyfriend is slave to me

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Registered: 10-03-2004
my boyfriend is slave to me
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 4:03am
my boyfriend is very soft and loves me so much ,he loves my sexyfeet realy I have so sexyfeet he always smilling and kissing it softly and kissing all my body then he is starting to do oral sex he is eating my clitoris in magic way and he is so happy with my secreation coming out from me I used to get huge orgasms in this setuation all what I mentioned is under the foreplay, Realy I'm very satisfied sexually to get multiple orgasmis every time but the question is :is he satisfied with my feet and why ? why he liks my clitoris and my secreations to eat realy to eat ? may be he is slave ?????
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 7:47am

Welcome to the board Ashkeaf.


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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 10:32am
Why question a good thing?

I don't think loving and pleasing someone is being " a slave" to them. It just sounds like he has a foot fetish, which is actually pretty common. But if this focus on your feet is a concern to you, then talk with him about it.

You said you "used to" have huge orgasms with oral sex....does that mean you no longer do? IF there's a problem now, then once again, discuss it. He sounds like a caring and concerned partner so you should be able to discuss any concerns or problems.

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Registered: 09-20-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:01am
He is doing it because he's fulfilling his own needs too. He's not ONLY servicing you, he's servicing himself at the same time. I must have a fetish too, because giving oral turns me on immensely. It's my favorite aphrodisiac, and there's very rarely a time when I have sex without incorporating it somehow. My favorite fantasy is to perform oral during intercourse, a physical impossibility. Anyhow, having your needs met at the same time as fulfilling another's is the ultimate. "Killing two birds with one stone." ;-)
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:18am
There are many women who would like to have an attentive boy friend like you have, so stop worrying. He is not a sex slave he just likes to give you pleasure and he gets pleasure doing it. As far as his kissing your feet, that is called a foot fetish. As long as you like it is is ok. A foot fetish is somewhat common. I don't understand the attraction to a woman's feet. I guess I am just a "breast" man. To each his own, I guess.
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:45am
how come he is serving himself at the same time while he is kissing or smelling my feet? what I m sure that he is in romantic love with me ,and in my opinion this sexual touch for my feet or my clitoris is stimulating only me and amaizing me to very ,,,,,,strong and long orgasm but the question is why the smelling feet?what this smell is stimulating insid him ?what about my secreations coming out from me is it very good to him to be keen to tast in very happy mood even after I finish my firest orgasm ? and why he always telling me I m in love with your erected clitoris? is this favorite to anyone like me? Iwant reply.
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:54am
Honey, he is sexually gratified by your feet because he has a foot fetish. That's the whole point of a fetish.

And he loves your clitoris because he's a sexually mature man who enjoys giving, not just receiving pleasure. My DH is the same way. He becomes almost as aroused as I am when performing cunnilingus.